Threesome, anyone?

[BlueAriel]

Will u ever try a threesome?!
By sharing ur boyfriend with another girl? or by joining a couple?

Yesterday i went out with a grp of very close sistas. It was one of their birthdays then we drank our hearts out at a club. When we were all very high, one of them decided to "lend" her guy out for threesome! lol. I wonder if that's a joke or what but we didnt go ahead with the plans. It just set me to think whether i will ever try a threesome and how many of us will?! Sex is getting more n more openly discussed nowadays..but are our thinkings really that open?(e.g. discussing abt sex toys in cleo?!)

Well, personally, i wont share my guy with another girl for a threesome. No no! ahh.. dont like the feeling of sharing my future husband with someone else. And i have my own insecurities as well.. what if that girl has a better figure than me?! etc..
As for joining a couple.. uh.. i am not too sure abt tt. =X I will if i have that mood with the "dont wan to care abt consequences" attitude but how many times will i have that kind of mood? hmm.. reputation is impt for a gal.

[Smoochie]

Some says," do it, just do it when you are young and crazy, once you grow older, for certain reason you can't do it, then you may feel regret.."

Hahaha...
I agree but sometimes, fantasy is still fantasy..
SOmetimes I don't mind letting my guy out and we sometimes joke of getting a girl that we don't know to join us as well as trying all styles with others.

He will also say he wanna see how I have sex with other guy and the reaction or whatsoever.

Everything still pending... till now, we never get anyone to "join" us.. hahaha..sometimes is just some fantacies to act into your sexual life.

[chiri]

i don't think i can accept such a thing though..

for me, i'm more conservative in my thinking.. so such things are a BIG no no regardless whether the other person is someone i know or not.

say the person is someone whom you know.. wouldn't it be embrassing the next time round you meetup with the same bunch of people?

and if the person is someone whom you don't know.. what's gonna happen if you realise that someone is actually your future colleague or something like that?

what goes around comes around.. the world is not that big..

and i am super possessive.. so no sharing in this sense..

not sure what others think of it.. just my 2cents..

[huishan]

Personally, I can't accept it too. I do feel really conservative when it comes to sex. Sex should involve love & feelings, so it means I will only do it with the man I love.

And as for another person joining us, I feel shamefully awkward. A girl looking at me, bare-naked. Something which even my best-est friends have not seen me in.

So, its almost a definite 100% I will not try threesome.

[Smoochie]

That's why I said, fantasy is still fantasy, how many people dare to try it?

[suGarsweet]

Ooooh.
What a nice fantasy!
A threesome with Collin Farrell and Robin Williams.

But whatever it is.. It should remain a fantasy.
Can u imagine how awkward it will be later?
Reality will always be reality.

[chocolatemousse]

hmmm, i think it's best to keep this threesome as a fantasy in my case. I'm a selfish gal who is never willing to share my SO with anyone else.

as what sugarsweet said, it will be really awkward and weird.

[huishan]

I'm another selfish girl, too.

[sephirias]

never. not because i'm selfish or self-conscious abt my figure but that's a bit twisted. uhm... some things should be left to xxx-rated flicks -lol-

[Smoochie]

Originally posted by sephirias
never. not because i'm selfish or self-conscious abt my figure but that's a bit twisted. uhm... some things should be left to xxx-rated flicks -lol-

AGREE!

[chiri]

Originally posted by sephirias
uhm... some things should be left to xxx-rated flicks -lol-

agree too! it reminds me of those scenes in pornography shows.

[daphz]

Originally posted by suGarsweet
Ooooh.
What a nice fantasy!
A threesome with Collin Farrell and Robin Williams.

But whatever it is.. It should remain a fantasy.
Can u imagine how awkward it will be later?
Reality will always be reality.

later? Just walk off and preserve that wonderful memory! haha I'd prefer traditional hunk Brad Pitt and erm...George Clooney? LOL

anyway, back on the topic - it is a fantasy for me that I will almost never have the guts to act on. Of course, it will have to be 2 guys and me. I will never be able to have another girl with the same guy! I mean, what if she's got a sexier ass/boobs/whatever than me?!

[BlueAriel]

i agree with U! especially on the part on the insecurities on my own body. haha

[kkeroko]

Totally agree, girls. But still too weird. I am just too shy.

[qinying]

no way for me.. feel so awkward... sex is an act of love for me... certainly not a game ..