Help- Sexless marriage

[guessi]

People might have doubts over what i am about to write but its the whole truth.

I have been married for about 10years and a few more years as friends. Over
these times, me and my husband has consummate once only.

True is that he is a doting husband
Over these years. Its hard for me to find a guy because of my age. And although i feel i am average looking,
I hardly can catch any guys' attention.

I have cried many times over this matter (maybe its unimportant) but soon console myself because it is so difficult to get a good guy.

I dont know what to do. Feel sad
Unlove stress.

[Ang Mo Wolf]

I hardly can catch any guys' attention.

It seems that's not the only thing you can't catch from guys.

Sorry I had crack this (bad) joke. I'm sure some gal on this forum will have suggestions for you.

[Borgen-breeze]

I have been married for about 10years and a few more years as friends. Over
these times, me and my husband has consummate once only.

Then why oh why do you only realise it now - like 10 years later ?!?!?!?!? Didn't it ring any alarm bells for you like while 2-12 months into the marriage ?!?!?

True is that he is a doting husband

He is not a doting husband, he is a doting man only. And anyone can be a doting man - doesn't necessarily have to be a husband.

Over these years. Its hard for me to find a guy because of my age. And although i feel i am average looking,
I hardly can catch any guys' attention.

I have cried many times over this matter (maybe its unimportant) but soon console myself because it is so difficult to get a good guy.

I dont know what to do. Feel sad
Unlove stress.

Have you EVER spoken to him about the issue ? Please, at least tell me yes ?!?!

Before anyone can suggest anything, I believe everyone on this forum will be asking the same burning question - how did it end up into a 10 years marriage and you tried to seek help only now ? How old were you when you got married ?

[MedonaJames]

I think without sex any marriage will not succeed in life.

[SongTony]

you should figure out the reason and do something. why not start change from your dressing way??

[Borgen-breeze]

you should figure out the reason and do something. why not start change from your dressing way??

How do you know it's the way she dresses that is the problem ? There is an equal chance that the problem lies with the husband too !