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    What kind of guys turns u on and off?

    Here's mine:

    Big time turn-ons:

    1. Humorous
    ( Witty, crazy, out of the world, laugh until stitches kind...LAME JOKES r OUT!)
    2. Sensitive
    3. Gentlemanly
    4. Romantic
    5. Intelligent
    6. Creative
    ( for eg. someone who will not just come up with the plain typical boring movie date suggestions)
    7. Soulful eyes, thin sexy lips (like orlando bloom's),
    bronze killer tan n bod, tall, tight bun
    8. Confident and expressive
    9. Loves shopping and extreme sports
    10. Thoughtful and Good listener ( Remembers what u said)

    Hee let me squeeze in these:
    11. Cooks well
    12. Love kids and animals
    Greedy me...hahhaha


    MAJOR TURN-OFFS:

    1. BIG EGO ( full of themselves kinda guy)
    2. Showy/ Poser
    ( likes to declare to the entire world they are rich or capable)
    3. Lame jokers
    4. Two-timers/Flirts
    5. Stingy
    6. Try to hard to impress
    7. Overly persistant/possessive/gets jealous easily
    8. Himbos
    9. MCP
    10. Superficial/shallow-minded
    Last edited by Tyerve; 12-05-2004, 09:02 PM.

  • #2
    Mine!

    Turn-ons

    Intelligent

    Humorous

    Nice smile

    Kind hearted/compassionate


    Turn-offs

    Egotistical

    Stubborn

    Hot Tempered

    Chauvinistic

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    • #3
      Turn ons:
      Tall
      confident
      filial
      atheletic (sp??)
      outspoken
      amuses me
      speaks well ( I'm such a sucker for this..)
      plays the piano
      sings well
      intelligent

      Turn offs:
      insecure men who "stick" to you like super glue
      laziness
      over-possessiveness
      unfilial
      animal abusers
      Last edited by grace; 12-05-2004, 09:01 PM.

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      • #4
        turn-me-ons

        1.Kind hearted and compassionate

        2.Gets along with people

        3.Gentlemanly

        4.Thoughtful.

        5.Unselfishness

        6.Creative(defnitely!)

        7.Nice smile(same same!)

        8.O.O soulful eyesss

        9.Love for music.

        turn-me-offsss :piss:

        1.Rude and crude.

        2.Hot tempered.

        3.MCPs

        4.Selfish.

        5.Prideful.

        6.POSERS.(arghz,cant stand guys like THAT! :piss: )

        7.Egos big enough to squash themselves.

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        • #5
          Mine!!

          Turn -Ons

          - Soulful eyes and lashes.
          - Filial
          - Intellectual but not over intelligent.
          - Sense of Humour.
          - Amuses Me.
          - Should be slightly different from me in personality n character.
          - Likes Lyrics of songs and able to sing ( no need to sing well.. don't go off-pitch will be sufficient!)
          - Knows what he wants
          - Gives you spaces


          Turn- Offs

          - Hot-tempered
          - Impatient
          - Unfilial
          - Clingy
          - Unmanly

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          • #6
            Turn On

            1. Has a great voice for Singing!
            2. Good Friendly Smile
            3. Short Hair (nowadays most guys sports those Japaneses' long permed wavy hair!!!!)
            4. Witty
            5. Confident and Professional in his work
            6. Like Animals


            TURN OFF

            1. Swearing (Esp those in Hokkien!!! )
            2. Bad Body Odour
            3. Loud and Show off
            4. MCP
            5. Sissy or Girly

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            • #7
              Here's mine (in no particular order )

              Turn Ons

              1. Tall, dark and handsome
              2. A lovely, captivating smile
              3. Well travelled
              4. A good conversationist and well spoken
              5. A good sense of humor
              6. Protective (but not in a suffocating sense!)
              7. Has a desire to try lots of new things and be adventorous in life
              8. Kind hearted, caring, supportive
              9. Knows how to be romantic
              10. Ambitious in his career
              11. Talented at someting (whether it be sport, playing an instruments, singing etc)
              12. Gentelmanly
              13. Generous


              Turn Offs

              1. Insecurity
              2. Aggressiveness
              3. Liers
              4. Vanity
              5. Selfishness
              6. Big Egos
              7. Laziness/ slobbishness
              8. Bad Hygiene :puke:
              9. Too loud/ brash/ gobby
              10. An overly bad dress sense

              I don't think I'm too picky then

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              • #8
                Talking about the extrinsic factor.

                Am I fair to say that gals tend to have a thing for guys who knows about music or are involved with music? Be it playing any musical instrument, sings well, good sense of rhythm (probably a good dancer as well) etc etc This is just my observation.

                Guys who talk music to me usually intrigues me...

                What say u?

                I love bad boys. I love it when I can mellow them down and make them want to change themselves because of me. Defintely no instigation on my part. A great sense of satisfaction!

                My bf used to be the epitome of almost all those turn-offs u gals listed. *lol* Then again, all this so-called faults are overshadowed by almost all those turn-ons u gals listed.

                One thing, I will never go out with a guy who thinks he's a one-man island. I never have a penchant for guys who thrives on his own compliments and others. I do not know 'flowery' languages and pls...no sweet-talk.

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                • #9
                  raebelasian: yep! i have a soft spot for guys who are musically or artistically inclined. hee...especially when he can sing me to sleep when im feeling down etc. As for bad boys...hhaha as much as i detest jerks....they still make me go weak in the knees...i guess its really the thrill of it...too nice a guy...will make him lose character....a bad boy just makes u feel gd when he abandons his dark side and change for the better!

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by raebelasian
                    Am I fair to say that gals tend to have a thing for guys who knows about music or are involved with music? Be it playing any musical instrument, sings well, good sense of rhythm (probably a good dancer as well) etc etc This is just my observation.

                    Guys who talk music to me usually intrigues me...

                    What say u?
                    ME!!! I just any guy who can play musical instruments! (especially piano or guitar).. Hmm.. will be better if he can sing well and can dance!! (so can teach me.. )

                    My heart will just melt away in all that music..

                    Maybe that's too much to ask for??
                    Last edited by Glossie; 30-11-2004, 07:20 PM.

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by raebelasian
                      Talking about the extrinsic factor.

                      ..I love bad boys. I love it when I can mellow them down and make them want to change themselves because of me. Defintely no instigation on my part. A great sense of satisfaction!

                      I TOTALLY AGREE! I think girls basically are impressed by guys who either can sing, play an instrument, dance or can do anything that has got to do with music...haha about the bad boy thing, there's a saying in chinese"Nan Ren Bu Huai, Nu Ren Bu Ai" . The direct translation is Men who are not bad, Women dont like. So I guess there's some truth in this saying...and changing a bad boy to a good boy sounds really satisfying!
                      Last edited by Glossie; 30-11-2004, 07:21 PM.

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                      • #12
                        hmm for me not really he doesnt need to know how to play any muscial instruments, but he must listen to good music

                        for me the turn ons are
                        1. tall
                        2. loves watching movies
                        3. can remember stuff (though i cant!)
                        4. considerate
                        5. open minded
                        6. make me laugh (the most important)
                        7. short hair (i hate long hair on guys, most of them look stupid)

                        turn offs
                        1. too clingy/possesive
                        2. MCP
                        3. bad temper

                        actually for you girls, do your SO fit your 'criteria'? mine if ok but not tall enough, i want him to be 1.8m but he is only 1.75m

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                        • #13
                          turn-ons
                          1. confidence (not egoistic)
                          2. sensitive ( not those womanly sensitive type)
                          3. gentleman (i can open the door on my own thanks)
                          4. supportive
                          5. probably good looking but cant count on that too much
                          6. can hold a conversation pretty well


                          turn-offs
                          1. dont have a mind of their own
                          2. stubborn for the sake of it
                          3. jealousy
                          4. no self esteem
                          5. bad manners (reminds me how well the parents has taught him)


                          hmm someone once told me a good man is a gay man
                          i somehow agree with him....

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by natnatviv

                            hmm someone once told me a good man is a gay man
                            i somehow agree with him....
                            haha.. i somehow agree!..altho' i would love my man to be the manly kind....but..so far one of the few rare guys that has managed to fit into my criteria is a GAY friend of mine....
                            haaha oh sad!
                            dont know to laugh or to sob..
                            the amusing thing is my gay friend
                            who i went out with to shop...to drool over cute hunks...
                            one day all of a sudden...dropped me a bomb..and asked if i like him saying that he would love to date me... :huh:
                            gosh! if only he is not gay....hhahah i wouldnt wanna date someone who will dump me for a man.

                            hahah some of my friends n i have truly resigned to this fact:
                            most men who are eligible are either taken...bastards....himbos or gays.....
                            hhhaah hope more guys can prove me wrong!

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                            • #15
                              What does it for me?
                              -Great smile (think Pierre Png)
                              -Tall and tanned
                              -broad shoulders with strong chest (i prefer guys who're abit beefy than skinny/lanky guys)
                              -Smart/Street-wise (i.e.:knows where to go)
                              -Powerful (be it in financial or intellectual terms)
                              -Chivalrous (i actually like guys who're alil' MCP-ish )
                              -Responsible
                              -Older men (i don't like an age gap of up to 10-12yrs)
                              -Good dress sense (smart not metrosexual)

                              What does NOT do it for me?
                              -Vainpots
                              -Possesive-ness
                              -Not down to earth
                              -Lazy guys who have maids at home
                              -Bad speech skills

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