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    Received the below in an email. Very meaningful and I just want to share it with all of you.

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    Today.....


    Today before you think of saying an unkind word
    Think of someone who cant speak
    Before you complain about the taste of your food
    Think of someone who has nothing to eat

    Before you complain about your husband or wife
    Think of someone who's crying out to God for a companion
    Today before you complain about life
    Think of someone who went too early to heaven

    Before you complain about your children
    Think of someone who desires children but they're barren
    Before you argue about your dirty house someone didn't clean or
    sweep
    Think of the people who are living in the streets

    Before whining about the distance you drive
    Think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet
    And when you are tired and complain about your job
    Think of the unemployed, the disabled and those who wished they
    had your job

    But before you think of pointing the finger or condemning
    another
    Remember that not one of us are without sin and we all answer to

    one maker
    And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down
    Put a smile on your face and thank God you're alive and still
    around

    Life is a gift
    Live it...
    Enjoy it...
    Celebrate it...
    And fulfill it


    HAVE A WONDERFUL DAY

  • #2
    Dolphin, thank you for sharing
    I thought this was a very sweet poem which highlights life and how we take things for granted.
    We can be mean at times without even realising it and this poem helps to highlight them to us

    Seems like this could be a ChannelNewsAsia "Pay it forward" campaign poem

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    • #3
      wow..very inspiring..thanks for sharing..

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      • #4
        Inspiring and meaningful. Thanx for sharing Dol

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        • #5
          Re: Thoughts for sharing...

          thx for sharing dearie~~ it's a really nice poem~ :thumb:

          Originally posted by dolphin

          Before you complain about your children
          Think of someone who desires children but they're barren
          Before you argue about your dirty house someone didn't clean or
          sweep
          Think of the people who are living in the streets

          shall say this to my mum whenever she complains..

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          • #6
            I got this in email too but dont want to start a new thread for it, so ride on to dol's thread If u believe in horoscope, must check this out! VERY accurate!

            CAPRICORN MAN
            >
            >A man in this Zodiac will has a pair of round big beautiful eyes, a nice
            >structure jaw line. He is a good listener and can understand everything
            >easily and clearly. He can guess what you will say before you even say it.
            >He often shakes his head or touch his hair. He is a big built, but he will
            >tend to have a small ear. He tends to have a darker shade of hair and eyes'
            >color. He will likely have a short and strong neck, broad shoulder,
            >muscular, strong hands and grips. He has a shorter fingers compare to the
            >man of the same size and same height in the other zodiac. His hands can work
            >well at the same time can protect and care for his woman.
            >
            >His height will be proportional to his weight. He will walk firmly and
            >always take a big long step. As he walks he will look around in caution with
            >no disturbance from his problems at present or in the past. He likes to
            >watch things built with fascinate and wonder about how it is done, so you
            >could see him watching a construction site and not get bored.
            >
            >He is a good dancer. He is a careful person in instinct, so even at dance
            >floor, he will already have to know what in front or behind him before he
            >will take any steps.
            >
            >Green is his favorite color. You will mostly see him wear green, navy, blue,
            >or brown. In all 12 Zodiacs, he is the one who can get the most satisfaction
            >from possession of beautiful thing, and cherish it as if it is very valuable
            >to him even it is just a crystal ball made in France.
            >
            >It is his luck that he hardly has to chase after woman. They always come
            >themselves without his invitation. He likes to treat his guest in his house
            >than visiting his guest at their house. He does not like to be a center of
            >attention, so if you need his help, you have to look up for him. He lives
            >his life in stability and simplicity. Every decision made are already "Sure"
            >and carefully thought out. He will not do what he has been asked to do if he
            >is not interested in doing it. He acts casually but in reality, he always
            >doing things seriously.
            >
            >He loves peaceful and quiet environment so in his free time, he will stay at
            >home instead of going out and look for adventure. He loves nature and dreams
            >of a nice and quiet house with lots of trees, or he may dream of a house in
            >a beautiful countryside.
            >
            >He will let you have freedoms and watching you in a distance. If you are
            >over doing something, he will let you know by his icy cold look. He is the
            >perfect lover in all the Zodiac for nothing he will not do for his love one.
            >He won't allow people to laugh at him or think he is a joker, so he will
            >spent for himself luxury for what it is worth.
            >
            >He likes neat and well dressed woman, so do not be a slop if you are dating
            >this guy. If you do that he will loose his face. He is the romantic type who
            >would dance with you under the moon light.
            >
            >Love will make him shines and you will see it in his face. He will not say
            >it out loud, you have to know it yourself.
            >
            >
            CAPRICORN WOMAN
            >
            >A tall slim, cool and quiet woman. Once she is mad she can be very fierce.
            >She can work better than some men and she is very high confident woman. In
            >her opinion, woman is not just a flower or decoration at home or at an
            >office and certainly not a weak sex who needs protection.
            >
            >She likes to control and hide her weak emotions. She will never try to
            >change anyone, but she will learn to accept them as they are. If she does
            >not like someone, she will not comments or criticize but she will completely
            >ignore that person.
            >
            >She hate plastic and an artificial flower because it make her feel that you
            >are not being sincere. She loves real flower and it's scent. She loves a guy
            >who wear after shave cologne. If you are a type of a guy who wear your Jean
            >one month before washing, or wear an old sneaker, then you can forget about
            >her.
            >
            >She loves music and nature even there is a rare case otherwise. She loves to
            >go picnic in nature, so if you don't have so much time for her, you can take
            >her fishing too.
            >
            >She is not as jealous as Aquarius or Leo woman, but do not cross the line
            >O.K. Better not to see she gets mad, especially in front of public when she
            >feels like loosing face. She loves to make up and dress perfectly and very
            >neat, so never rush her for this matter.
            >
            >She has her own goal in life and does not care if you have a doctorate
            >degree or not, if she thinks you are not bright then she will not care about
            >you at all. She likes smart people by character not by certificate shown. If
            >you can not show her this quality, go and take a bus and go to the next
            >stop.
            >
            >She does not like a dreamer who talk about his dream but never put his hands
            >in action to make it happens. Don't bother to tell her "everyone is doing
            >it, you should do it too", or "I think you should do it, it's good for you",
            >because she will do what she wants to do only.
            >
            >She is a neat and tidy person, so if your apartment is a pigsty , do not
            >take her there. If you go out on a date with her , try to be presentable
            >such as nice and clean dress, clean nails or else it will be your last date.
            >
            >She is a cool type and will not nag, so easy on your ears. She is a slow but
            >sure type. She will always respect and honor you and will never try to make
            >you loose your face. If she loves you, she will help you in anything you do.
            >
            >She likes to help people and expect nothing in return. If she asks you for a
            >favor and does not get one, she will feel very disappoint. She has a high
            >hope and a high faith and beliefs in her own confident than believing in
            >"Luck".
            >
            >If she is your wife, you will have nice and clean home and a gourmet
            >cooking. If your parents visit your house, they will be please. She is a 3
            >in 1 means , a perfect mother, a perfect housewife, a perfect wife or you
            >could say "happily ever after".
            >
            >
            >
            AQUARIUS MAN
            >
            >Hot-hearted man who likes to do thing his way. He can suddenly decide to do
            >something without thinking of it's outcome. He is the type of guy with an
            >inside energizer, so if you fall in love with this type of guy be "patient",
            >even if you have to follow him a bit. His creative mind could create
            >fantastic idea any time. If you do not understand or can not follow him, you
            >won't be with him for long.
            >
            >A man in this Zodiac will less likely to have a pale skin, and if he has a
            >scar, it would be on his face or on his head. He moves very fast and very
            >energetic, and he has a very self confident in himself. He is not the type
            >to sit down and feel sorry or regret anything for long, especially with
            >"Love". He loves justice. He dares to show his opinion or even argue about
            >certain subject even he knows it might bring him problems. A straight
            >forward type of guy.
            >
            >He hardly lies except if he think it is necessary and he is not a good liar
            >anyway. He will not lie to you about serious matter, but if he lie he will
            >lie only a small little thing. He is gifted with the ability to be a very
            >social person. He could talk even about subject that he has no knowledge of.
            >He interests only at the present time and look at the world positively. Many
            >times he feels hurt because of reality, but he will not run away and he will
            >overcome that difficulty.
            >
            >Even he is a high and self confident type and center his own thought as a
            >main focus, but at the same time he is a kind, cute and polite guy. He
            >certainly is not a mean person. He likes to help people who are in troubles
            >even he is not asked to. He is the type who feels sorry if you remember bad
            >things he said to you that he had already forgotten,but you did not. Belief
            >him that he is very sorry and give him another chance.
            >
            >Once he decides to do something, he will put all his mind and energy in it
            >either in his "Work", or "Love". He is the type who gamble anything in the
            >casino, so do not even take him there. He does not like pessimistic, low
            >energy, and depress person, especially no brain. Strangely he like to
            >overpowered this type of people to assure that he is more superior.
            >
            >He like to be the first person to do something. You can see sparkling in his
            >eyes, once he meet a new target or new lover. Once he is in love, he will
            >act as if he never has love like this before. This minute he could be real
            >sugar sweet, and later he could also be an icy cold, but do not blame him
            >for that will only chase him away. He could fall in love again with another
            >girl and act again like he never has this kind of love before.He could
            >really love someone, but not a heart broken type for he thinks love is
            >"excitement" and "Love goes on".
            >
            >If you date this kind of guy, do not or avoid showing your face to him with
            >face pack, face mask, always be presentable, nice and cute. If he is quiet
            >not because he is shy, but he is only quietly thinking. If you have a chance
            >to ask his X-girlfriend, she will tell you that he is not a shy or quiet
            >type. If he is really and truly in love with you, he will never lie to you
            >at all. How do you know if he loves you, bet on your faith! Love him and
            >treat him steadily and do not try to find anything to argue with him, he
            >will be with you for sure.
            >
            >If you are his lover or girlfriend and need to tell him something, go and
            >say it out loud and straight forward because he hate long boring story. He
            >hate to play games, chasing for love or being chased, so let him call you
            >first. He likes a confident woman who also a good follower. If he gets mad
            >at you, let him be for only a short time he will be normal again. You have
            >to like and be able to get along with his friends, but he does not have to
            >do so with all your friends.
            >
            >Don't ever think you could make him jealous by flirting with other man, he
            >will just leave instead of making a scene because he is a confident man and
            >has to be the first in everything.
            >
            >
            AQUARIUS WOMAN
            >
            >If you are in love with a woman in this zodiac be prepared to be very happy
            >or be very sorry. She is a very busy person with her own matters similar to
            >a guy in this zodiac. She is able to live by herself without any guy in her
            >life, a very strong person indeed.
            >
            >Not because she does not have a dream guy, but if she can not find such
            >person, so what. Because she thinks she could do anything that a man can do.
            >She is a leader , a real confident type.
            >
            >She likes to do things by herself, such as serving herself, opening the door
            >herself. Because she thinks waiting for a helping hand is a waste of time,
            >and she is not patient enough to wait around for that. If she starts to ask
            >you out, do not think she starts to flirt with you, but because she thinks
            >it is a waste of time to wait for you to be the one who asked.
            >
            >She likes a COOL guy who sometime act like he is ignoring her, so he has a
            >chance to show him his own confident. She like to guess her man's reaction,
            >but at the same time she likes to has many men wanting her. She is a daring
            >type who could just do thing differently from other people in her same
            >society. She dare to fight for what she thinks belonged to her.
            >
            >Even she acts confident she mostly feel lonely and alone. If she breaks up
            >with someone , she won't show any emotion even deep down inside pain and
            >agony. Not for long she will come back to be the cheery and merry person
            >again, because she looks at the world positively and has "Faith" in the word
            >"Love".
            >
            >She has more men friends than women friends, so do not be a jealous type if
            >you date her. She could be slightly jealous, but she hates jealous guy. She
            >loves "Freedom" so before and after marriage , her freedom has to be the
            >same. She likes you to trust her, even if she does not trust you anyhow.
            >
            >She likes to be the one who is "Right", so if you argue with her , let her
            >win if it is not a big deal for you in that subject. She is a straight
            >forward type, so if she does not love you anymore, she will just tell you
            >straight to your face. Her love and relationship are always real, so if she
            >say "It's over" be prepare to leave, she is not testing you.
            >
            >She is not a vulnerable type, so do not have to worry about her, she will
            >survive by herself. If she is with you when you get sick, she will certainly
            >take care and look after you, even look after you mean "small loan". Do not
            >have secret with her, she hates it and really can piss her badly. When she
            >is sad , be understanding. When she is happy, be happy with her, she likes
            >that.
            >
            >You will not get bore with this type of girl. Someone who is close to her
            >will know that deep down beneath that confident and cold hearted person, she
            >is just as fragile as any woman. She is a fun and talkative person and she
            >likes to tease you. Do not let she talk alone, if you do she will leave.
            >
            >She has many type of jobs because she beliefs what a man can do, I can do.
            >If you want her to work for you, forget it. When she is in love, she will
            >just leave her job in the day time just to come to see you, but not for long
            >she will go back to work seriously again. Prepare to live and love with a
            >"Working Woman" then you will be OK.
            >
            >If she mad, find a shelter for the "Hurricane" is here! Her bad temper will
            >last very shortly though. She is not a revenge type and will not think of
            >"pay Back" time. Most people might think of her as "One of a guy", but in
            >fact she is a 100% woman. She is easily hurt, so be nice with her. If she
            >really loves you, then you are lucky because she is an honest, truthful and
            >will never bored you. Understand that sometimes she will be over confident
            >and sometimes like to have power or act bossy.
            >
            >
            PISCES MAN
            >
            >He is very emotional and always allow himself to be very emotional. He can
            >have a good night sleep and be in a good mood, and less than few hours at
            >work he can be very moody. He does not understand things or try to
            >understand things easily. If you notice him carefully, you will notice what
            >kind of moods he is in.
            >
            >He is a thinker and able to do well at work and always succeed. His normal
            >gestures mean he always look at other people faults, but he will not talk
            >about it. He has the ability to know your thought and able to tell you what
            >you are thinking about.
            >
            >He can mostly memorize all his anger, his loves. They are his important
            >secrets and he will keep them to himself and will never let you know. He is
            >not a very ambition man and careless about his position in society. Wealth
            >does not drawn his attention, because he is not greedy man and as well he
            >thinks money is not something that will last. He could be very careless
            >about his future. He does not like to fight against all odds, but instead
            >following the stream and make life easier. Sometimes because he likes to
            >take an easy path, which cause him very unsteady future.
            >
            >He is kind and slightly lazy, but it is his cute character. He hates rules
            >and regulations. He will never look down on people. He is a polite guy and
            >can be very aggressive when he is mad. He loves to think that he lives in a
            >beautiful world and surround by nice people, so if he finds his world is
            >cruel and not what he expects, he will live in his world instead.
            >
            >His other charm is that he is a funny guy, and it is his real weapon. He can
            >tease you and yet make it looks like one of his joke. Even when he is sad,
            >he still has that funny face, so you could hardly tell if he is mad or
            >depress. He likes to hide his feeling and help other people especially those
            >who need friend or lonely.
            >
            >He will be everything that you want and everything you do not want. He has a
            >chance to make it as much as a chance to fail. He can determine to make it
            >work and can do it well, except he tends to lost his energy with other
            >important things, that's how he miss many of his good opportunity.
            >
            >He can be happy and content by himself. What he think is important is not
            >"Love" ,but firm status and stability. He has plenty of love for you.
            >
            >He is a good speaker, as much as he is a good listener. When he is with you,
            >he wants to be happy. He understand his partner's emotional. He likes to
            >take a long rest and sometimes being alone. If he needs to be alone, try not
            >to disturb him.
            >
            >He is a sensitive, quiet , shy and easily hurt. He wants to feel worthy. He
            >can be mad and noisy, but once he calm down, he will be that happy person
            >again. He is not a jealous or possessive guy, and if he feels jealous he
            >will hide it. He has many friends of both sex, and he care about his
            >friends. He likes to have lots of friends, so you can not get jealous or
            >else you will loose him. He likes beautiful things, so if a pretty woman
            >walk by he will look ,so do not get mad at him knowing this fact.
            >
            >When he is lonely or feeling sad, be close to comfort him. He does not like
            >to take advice,so if you want him to listen or to follow your advice, you
            >have to act as a good sample for him first. He likes a cheery and a smart
            >woman. If you treat him like he is your special person, then he will be that
            >special person for you. He will trust you if he is in love, but try not to
            >over doing it and spoil him too much. You have to know yourself worth all
            >the time too.
            >
            >
            PISCES WOMAN
            >
            >She likes to be in a dream world than to be in reality. She is weak and
            >sensitive when it's come to "Love". She can cry if her best friend is
            >breaking up, and she can be over excited when her friend gets a new boy
            >friend who is a good looking and rich even it is nothing concerned her at
            >all. You might be surprise to see that she is shy just because she is in
            >love. More or less it will be in Pisces woman. She loves small animal and
            >gifted in training animals.
            >
            >She has sixth senses and she can guess what will happen next, it's her
            >nature. Even she has a good sixth senses, she can not pick or foreseen her
            >own choice of lover. She can not tell if she meet a sincere guy or a one
            >night stand guy.
            >
            >She likes to buy and pick her own cloths. She likes to dress cute and be
            >cute. Pisces woman tend to be a good looking woman and she has a nice skin.
            >Her hands and feet are small and soft. Pisces woman loves to shop for shoes
            >as if she collects them. She is a hot lady that everyone wants her. Whether
            >she has a man in her life or not , she will never try to over powered any
            >man. It's not even in her thought.
            >
            >She thinks man can handle things better, and she will make her man feel that
            >way. She is an easy going person, so being with her is easy. She is a
            >confident woman and likes to make people who stay with her happy. She knows
            >how to please and how to comfort a man. If something is wrong, she will try
            >to make other people belief that it's must be because of someone else, not
            >because of her love one. She will not push her man to be ambition but to
            >make him feel like he should be happy with the way he is now. She is happy
            >with you for what you are now.
            >
            >A Pisces woman , if she has a bad childhood, she will always remember it and
            >it will make her a very unhappy person. She will pity herself and feel sorry
            >for herself. She tends to hurt herself with out knowing it and so vulnerable
            >to drugs (real drugs or just sleeping pills). She has many choices and you
            >can never tell which path she going to take. If you love her , then hold her
            >tight because she never knows why she did what she did or what she will do
            >next.
            >
            >A complex character. You may think she is a shy innocent type and can not
            >hurt anyone, then you are wrong. You might think she is a fragile person who
            >needs protection, wrong again. She has been through a lot, a tough cookie.
            >She is a dreamer and love the word "Love", so she is the type who will buy
            >gift for anyone for any occasion, especially if it is a gift for wedding or
            >an anniversary even for someone who she does not know so well.
            >
            >Be very careful if fall in love with Pisces woman. She can be a total
            >different person before and after. She can be an angle before and later a
            >witch, but everyone is not perfect, right? She will be soft and gentle most
            >of the time, so not to worry. She is emotional and extremely sensitive when
            >she frequently got hurt. She is the type who can cry her heart out.
            >
            >She can have a secret fear inside, when she says she does not need anyone.
            >She badly needs someone to protect her, but sometimes she can hide that
            >feeling by being stubborn. She likes to hide her shyness and her weakness
            >from her enemy. She does not like to follow any fixed rules. She can be a
            >good housewife if you know how to handle her.
            >
            >Many men will ask to marry her because she is a 100% woman. If she wants to
            >be sweet, she is a real angles.
            >
            >
            ARIES MAN
            >
            >He always let other people walk in front of him, but he will get there
            >first. He is a very careful guy and small obstacles won't make him fall
            >easily even he thinks life is a very serious matter. He is as romantic as
            >any other Zodiac. He could look gentle, but inside he is as strong as steel.
            >Once he determine to do something, he is serious about doing it well. He
            >will keep any pressure or insult deep down inside without showing emotion.
            >You will never see his emotion of burden or disappointment and always wonder
            >what he thinks or feels. He will well kept his feeling.
            >
            >You will never see a guy in this Zodiac involving in other people business.
            >He always concern with his own business. Sometimes he can be talkative, but
            >he will never give anyone advice if he has not been asked. If you ask for
            >advice, he will certainly give you one. He respects elderly and senior, so
            >you will see he is the type who visit his parents steadily or often.
            >
            >He is a slightly shy but also a stubborn person. He will find many ways to
            >make you happy when you are with him, till you realize he is the important
            >person for you. Once he is in the "Power Position", he will use his power
            >gently. He is a good leader and "Gentleness" is one of his effective method
            >for exploiting his power. It is although he is borne to be a leader. He
            >never hide his ambition, and he is a workaholic. he will not take any
            >position that he has no control. He will work very hard to reach his goal
            >and satisfaction.
            >
            >Compliment from his boss or superior are never enough for him, he want his
            >deserved reward. His deep insecurity make him reach and collecting valuable
            >things, and this you may think he is stingy. Actually he could easily
            >spending money to buy things, traveling or pay for things that makes him
            >happy and he think necessary for his need. He care what other people think
            >of him and want to get good comments or compliments.
            >
            >Outside he looks like stone and steel, but inside he is a fragile person. He
            >will hide and cover up weak emotion and his sadness in order to maintain and
            >keep up his "Image". One method of cover up you could easily notice is
            >suddenly if he is quiet, cold, or act very strong or very secure. Often, he
            >feels insecure, even he is serious about his life and his own surrounding.
            >
            >This is the man who never hurry to get marry, so hardly sit back and regret
            >about his marriage later. If he gets marry, he need to be very certain and
            >very sure. It will take a long time for such decision, so if you tell him
            >that you are "breaking up" , you better forget him for good because he will
            >never coming back.
            >
            >He always keep his promise. If he said he will meet you in your place in 2
            >hours then he will be there, unless there is a serious accident or
            >unavoidable things happen. He hate people who is late for date or any
            >appointment.
            >
            >He like to think woman should be a follower and take care of family and
            >working is a man duty. He does not like to compete with his girl friend or
            >his wife at work because competition already exist with himself and other
            >people. He will be very proud if he can afford and care for his family. Do
            >not try to over power him or insult him, he can not stand it. He likes to be
            >in control of every things, every situations.
            >
            >He like a "Classy Woman" ,if she also comes from a good family then it is a
            >Plus. It will make him feel proud and very ego about her status. Flashy type
            >of woman , forget it. He like a perfect or a nearly perfect housewife. He
            >tend to be possessive. He will not tell you if he is mad at you, but will
            >act very moody to show you instead.
            >
            >He like to hear sweet word and compliment so you can get his interest that
            >way. If he approaches you to ask you out, do not act too stubborn or fooling
            >around too much. He will get tired and just disappear. He has to feel
            >confident when he is around you, so knowing this fact you should know what
            >to do, right!
            >
            >If you want him, you have to make him feel like he is the most important
            >person for you. He likes a kind hearted woman , polite and can get along
            >with his family. When he feels sad, do not leave him alone, but be very
            >supportive. Kind words and your smile will win him over, so this strong man
            >will be like a chicken in your palm.
            >
            >
            ARIES WOMAN
            >
            >She thinks the world is watching her through the eye glasses of rose petal
            >frame. She thinks people think and talk about her only about good things and
            >often disappoint to know the fact that they are not true and not even real,
            >so she will feel hurt. She think her path has to be a beautiful one. She
            >think only good things so she prepares and always make arrangement for
            >herself to be in the right path always, quite systematic indeed.
            >
            >If there is no guy in her life, she will be busy with herself. This
            >seemingly ordinary woman will push herself to meet her goal. Her face mostly
            >will be slim and long, high cheek bone, Eye brow slightly curve up, slight
            >tall more than short, thin lips and she will have quite a confusing or
            >mixture of character.
            >
            >Sometimes, she will be very careful about guy she will mingle with. She
            >thinks as if she has a main CPU in her head and she could memorize
            >everything from her childhood. When she faces with problems, she will handle
            >them and solving them very well, and at the same time showing other people
            >that she has that capability. She can put her mind in solving problems in
            >crisis better than many other Zodiac. Once she determine to do thing,
            >nothing will stop her.
            >
            >Woman in this Zodiac could be totally different from one woman to another
            >woman. You could see her in the party dancing like flash dance or dirty
            >dancing, as well you could also see her as an old fashion lady or a geek.
            >She could be someone flashy and wanted by many men, or she could be a cold
            >and non-social person. She will have her own way to win you over. Once she
            >choose you, she will need to be proud of you.
            >
            >"Love" is not as important to her as "Marriage". Her real goal in life is
            >"Safety" and her position in other people sight need to be "Secure". She
            >plans her life, and socially life easily and very carefully. She is also
            >very artistic and realistic, so if you are a nobody or nothing, no chance
            >because she loves ambition and a good life. She need lots of love,but do not
            >want and do not belief in an occasional or unconventional love.
            >
            >She is a proud in nature type, so if you see a woman in this Zodiac come
            >from a poor family, she will act like a woman from a noble family by birth
            >anyway (certainly there are always exception). She always look cool even
            >when she is not. She like to make people see her as "secure and confident"
            >even she is a mixed emotion and mixed character type. If she is mad, you can
            >tell right away and she can stay moody for quite a long time.
            >
            >You never have all her times, for she likes to work hard and also spent some
            >spare times working for charity. You will see woman in this zodiac a
            >"Volunteer" for camp, and if she is in a high society, she will most likely
            >be a president or a V.P. of a "Club". She is a romantic and artistic, but
            >being poor and unstable is certainly not in her dreams. Her beautiful
            >imaginations need to be realistic, for failure is not in her plan.
            >
            >A Goat always climb high, so either she start from a low point or a high
            >point, she will make sure at the end she will have the best spot. She will
            >not show her ambition, but she will show that she satisfy with herself now.
            >Once you look back she already moved up again , quietly but sure.
            >
            >If she is your love one, be supportive and understand her. She is stubborn,
            >but she will listen. She will act like a gentle fragile person,but in fact
            >she can stick you down like a super glue without you knowing it.
            >
            >
            TAURUS MAN
            >
            >A quiet simple man who can do something unexpected to shock you. Taurus man
            >mostly medium tall, strong with good health, good strong body. When he
            >talks, he likes to turn his head to one side on one direction. His body will
            >be quite straight, facial structure tend to be square shape more than other
            >shape. His eyes sparkle with liveliness.
            >
            >Even when he is in love, he is still a free wild bird. He is a sand in your
            >palm, the more you want to hold it, it will slip out. If you stand and hold
            >it still, it will stay that way. Don't set the rules and draw a line for
            >him, he will not stay.
            >
            >When you are with him, he will think only of you. But an hour later he could
            >change his mind. He is very patient with other people, but very impatient
            >with himself. His world always turning and it will not stop just because he
            >loves you. If he up sets, he will show it right away. If something has gone
            >wrong, he will blame his own carelessness instead of blaming other people.
            >
            >He sincere to his friends even to some friends he does not like. He likes to
            >do odd things and surprise other people. He could be fully dress in a nice
            >suit and jump in the pool. He could slap your back so hard just to make you
            >turn around to see he has flowers in his hand. He never want to get too
            >close with anyone for he thinks living in reality is living by yourself.
            >
            >He does not care what people think when he behave weird. He could be walking
            >bare feet and laughing at people who laugh at him and think they are so
            >narrow minded. He does not likes to follow conformity, but always want to
            >search for new ventures, new mystery. He will interest in a life of a
            >millionaire as much as a life of an old man selling newspaper on a sidewalk
            >vendor.
            >
            >He like to search and analyze people and things. He will analyze his friends
            >or his girl friend, and once the mystery is gone, he will search for new
            >puzzle to solve. He can not easily understand thing, so he will gradually
            >learning about you till he fills up all his questions.
            >
            >He knows so many people ,but he has a few friends. He looks for quality
            >friends than quantity friends. He will be close with some friends shortly
            >and move on. He always feel lonely even surround by many people. He could
            >create his own little world, and sometimes no one would understand him. He
            >looks only for future and he thinks he lives for the future. He may wonder
            >how many people think like he does, but he does not want to be like the
            >others.
            >
            >A man with a conflict personality. He is a cool, understanding, able to work
            >well, and very artistic. Taurus man could be an artist. He could shock you
            >as much as he is able to clam you down when you up set. He is a free spirit
            >who likes venture, but when he wants to be alone, do not touch him but to
            >let him be. He won't disappear from the crowds too long, he will be back.
            >
            >He will give you straight forward opinion or comments, but will never advice
            >what he thinks you should do. He does not like people to tell him what he
            >should do too. He thinks each individual dreams and thoughts should be very
            >private. He will use his brain not his body strength, so he will let other
            >guys compete. He has a certain satisfactory in life and hate to force
            >himself in competition. He may seems careless, but actually he is a thinker
            >and a stubborn one.
            >
            >He sees anythings in details and not easily trusted people till he thinks he
            >knows them well. You can just smile and he will think why and what are you
            >smiling about, and if you are pretending. Once he trust you and accept you
            >as a friend, no one can says other wise to change that for he will not
            >listen to gossip. He will be honest and sincere to his friends.
            >
            >He hates lies, so he will not tell you lies. If he finds it is necessary to
            >lie, he will find other ways not to tell you or avoid telling you anything.
            >If he really has to lie, you will never be able to tell that he is lying. He
            >can really keep secrets, so you will hardly know that he is a lonely soul.
            >
            >If you want this kind of guy, you have to be an interesting person. He has
            >to be curious about you. Hell for him is "No Freedom", so if he marry you
            >then you should know it is the biggest decision in his life. Always be
            >interesting, then you could have him beside you.
            >
            >
            TAURUS WOMAN
            >
            >A slim moderately tall woman. Taurus woman is funny and a jolly person.
            >Square facial bone structure, high cheek bone. Her round big eyes sparkle
            >with wit and curiosity. You will not see many round faces Taurus women, and
            >mainly she will have a strong jaw line.
            >
            >She is a constantly change person. If she up sets, she will not show it and
            >will keep it to herself for a long time, and will remember them so well. If
            >she gets really mad at you, you will suddenly become a totally and
            >completely stranger to her.
            >
            >She is a patient person, but always need new excitement. She hates long talk
            >meeting, long and endless conversation. She can be in love with you today,
            >and one day she could act as if she has never loved you before. She has
            >patient with what she wants to do and will never give up until she gets
            >there. She will be very persistent in what she is doing till she has reasons
            >for stopping her project, then she will quit.
            >
            >Money for Taurus woman is not the most important factor in life. She thinks
            >of money as an instrument for assuring of a good living. She has more
            >satisfaction in achieving her goals more than satisfaction in fine cloths
            >and luxuries. If you like a woman who always thinks of love and romance
            >,then you are dating the wrong girl. You can not tell her to stay at home,
            >she likes to work and preferred not work at home.
            >
            >She loves animals and likes to surround by animals. Love is in her head, but
            >Freedom is in her soul. She has her own idea about love and afraid to show
            >her true feeling for fear of rejection. She is not the type to talk about
            >love, but she sure has a strange way to show it. She is not good in showing
            >when she is in love, but if she loves you she will be honest to you than any
            >other women.
            >
            >She will be honest to her love one, but at the same time seems distant. You
            >will have a good relationship with her, if you allow her freedom. Do not
            >force her to be with you in a poker game which she hates, but let she goes
            >out swinging with her friends if she wants to. She will be different than
            >other girls, and she thinks different is one of her unique quality. She is a
            >public figure but belongs to no one.She will not stay with you, if she
            >thinks you are not sincere. She likes you to have personality, but better
            >not to compete with her. Loves her, but not too much for she afraid it will
            >limiting her freedom.
            >
            >She always stand out of the crowd for something she dares to do. You could
            >see her dress like a poor farmer dinning in the fancy restaurant, or dress
            >like a nun in an a cocktail dress party. If you are a politician who are
            >looking for a wife, she will make a good one because she is cleverly smart
            >and she could get along socially with any type of crowds.
            >
            >She is not a jealous type because she has to know you thoroughly before
            >accepting you in her life. She has more curiosity in life than wondering if
            >right now you are flirting with someone else. If you keep a distant from
            >her, or go away for a few days, she will miss you more. Even when she is
            >dating you, she also able to fond of someone else, if you do not have
            >something she is looking for. She will never disappoint you or hide behind
            >your back to make you loose face, but she is the type who just going to tell
            >you to your face that " We're better off breaking up".
            >
            >She always remember her first love. Taurus woman holds the best record for
            >divorce for she does not care about how people think of her, but every
            >things should be done for "Happiness".
            >
            >She has lots of friends and sure of herself, so you will hardly see she
            >delays any of her thoughts before her action. If she think of something, she
            >will go ahead and does it. She has many men wanting her for her constant
            >changes is the challenge. She can be cute and funny, but suddenly cool and
            >tough. She has her own style of dressing up, so you could see her dress like
            >an old mate today, and tomorrow she may dress like she comes from Mars. She
            >will have that interesting hair, dress and a look unique from anyone else.
            >
            >She likes to learn about your dreams and your thought. She has fun teasing
            >you and making jokes. If she did something wrong, she won't hide it from
            >you, but do not ask when she is not in the mood to talk about it. She hates
            >to owe people money and take promise seriously. If you promise to pay her
            >back, you'd better paid up.
            >
            >If you want to make it with Taurus woman, then do not be jealous or
            >possessive, do not be narrow minded, do not criticize about nonsense or
            >small and insignificant matters. Try to likes her friends and let she has
            >her privacy, then she can be very sweet to you.
            >
            >
            GEMINI MAN
            >
            >A man in this Zodiac has a thin long and proportional face. He has a high
            >forehead and very cleaver. He looks like he can not stand or sit still, a
            >very fast person. His nose is just right in size, thin lips, talk fast and
            >very talkative. He can think faster than he talks, but once he start
            >talking, he will talk non stop as if god has gifted him with that special
            >talk machine mouth. He likes to cut his hair short and he is very athletic.
            >He is a tall, slim and every movement of his is "Fast" or nearly call
            >"Hyperactive".
            >
            >He has a long fingers and always tapping on table or moving his finger as if
            >he is trying to grab something. He is the type who will write or scribble on
            >paper, he never stay still. His hair always well comb or neat. He will spent
            >a long time to comb his hair. He will keep his manicure and pedicure clean.
            >He is a well dress and clean guy, so if you like cleanliness, you will love
            >him.
            >
            >He will keep all his cloth in big closet, and never throw away even shirts
            >he never wear any more, but yet he still keep buying new cloths and make
            >sure he is in style. He knows how to dress well even with a low budget. He
            >get bored easily with his favorite cloths , cologne. He is very picky, so
            >soap and his cologne even have to be in the same trend or same scent.
            >
            >If you date this kind of guy, you might think you are dating 2 guys, you
            >will have to guess his feeling and emotion. Is he doing thing because it is
            >a duty, or is it because he wants to?
            >
            >He change his mind as fast as he change a new pairs of shoes. He can pick up
            >a book and roughly read through and understand it's contents, so if you see
            >a Gemini man who reads the whole book, then he must be influenced by other
            >Zodiac.
            >
            >He hate to set fix schedule, and dislike a boring same routine job. He could
            >hardly be on time, and can only keep time if it is complete important and
            >necessary. He does not come late because he forgets, but because he always
            >find other attractions along the way. He likes to act opposite to what he
            >wants to do. He is a very good speaker and make a very good politician. He
            >can easily persuade other people and well presented himself in public, a
            >real charmer. If he is a writer, he will write the best seller.
            >
            >He always search for truth and constantly study himself. He never satisfy
            >about his fame, his reputation or money, because he thinks he deserved more.
            >He will keep searching even he is not sure what is his ultimate
            >satisfaction.
            >
            >Woman in love normally wants to feel secure and stable, but if you fall in
            >love with this guy be prepare to be alone. He will come to see you when he
            >feels like it. He won't even know how he spent his days everyday, so adjust
            >yourself if you love him.
            >
            >Dating him is like dating 2 guys, so today he can tell you how much he loves
            >you, but tomorrow he might call you to cancel your date. When he upsets, he
            >could tell you he hate your dress, even it is the same dress he used to tell
            >you make you look very sexy. Do not ask him why he is that's way for he
            >won't have any explanations too. When he is back to normal mood, he will
            >take you out again and forget what just happened.
            >
            >You can not expect him to be the same person now, and forever. His changes
            >will depend on you, for better or for worst. If you like to take risk and
            >dare for challenges, you will get along with him fine. He keeps his
            >emotional secretly as if hiding it, so you will not be able to see if he
            >crazy in love with you, or does not give a damn at all, but be calm and
            >patient.
            >
            >He will never leave you if he thinks you are a puzzle, then he will spent
            >times solving this puzzle.
            >
            >
            GEMINI WOMAN
            >
            >A good looking woman with brains, a very interesting person. She has a fast
            >movement and she could not sit still or stand still long. She is able to do
            >many things at the same time and do it fast. If you date her, you will feel
            >like dating many women at the same time. You can not tie her down with the
            >word "Love" because she cares about love but is it not a major factor of her
            >life. You have to be able to adjust yourself to get along with her many
            >different characters.
            >
            >She is a dreamer and has many dreams. She eager to learn something new all
            >the time. Even she is the 2 in 1 mixed character type, she is quite lucky in
            >love. You have to put all your efforts to win her affection. Even when she
            >likes you and wonder about your wit, she will also see and inspect your bad
            >side at the same time, because it is in her nature.
            >
            >She able to keep all kinds of mixed emotions without annoying you or letting
            >you know at all. She can cheer you up by acting like a free little bird. Her
            >conversation will not bored you. She able to talk to you in any subjects.
            >She can make you feel like you are the luckiest man alive. She can make you
            >feel like she needs all your care, but once she needs to stand alone, she
            >can stand alone firmly an comfortably.
            >
            >She can be your best buddy and talk to you about anything. She can join all
            >your activities with the same energy that you have. She is a quick wit
            >person and learn new things very fast. She can see your projects and she can
            >give you good advice. If she thinks you are not sure that you want her for
            >yourself, she will act like your best friend only, a cool woman.
            >
            >She can easily make a guy fall in love with her. Her multiple changes and
            >many moods is a "Charm" for many men. She can be laughing for 2 minutes and
            >later suddenly quiet. She wants to find only 1 true love and she wants to
            >meet her dream guy. She expects a lot and nearly too much. She is constantly
            >waiting for her knight shinning armor even she is with a steady boy friend.
            >She can fall in love or fond of someone else while she is with you. If you
            >break up with her, she will forget you quite fast, because change is in her
            >nature. The Gemini woman breaks more heart than woman in other Zodiac.
            >Because she is a dreamer and always waiting for her knight shinning armor
            >,so her love life can be complex or a mess.
            >
            >She hates to write a long letter, so if you write her a letter and expect a
            >prompt reply, forget it. Because she has a multiple personality and multiple
            >ideas, so she hates to put them down in written proof. Because she knows
            >what she belief today can be different tomorrow.
            >
            >She could communication with more than 1 languages , a real gifted
            >linguistic. If she wants to tell you any bad comments, she won't say it
            >straight away, but she will talk to you about many other things and
            >accidentally come to that subject without offending you. Normally she will
            >not lie.
            >
            >She will work hard and once a while take a long rest. She can get bored and
            >tired with her own surrounding more than at work. She never feel content
            >with her present work, money, or reputations, she will drive to have more.
            >Don't ask her what is her ultimate contentment for she will not have an
            >answer.
            >
            >Once you get to know her, she will be a supportive person and always be
            >beside you. She has a beautiful dream and she loves to have someone walk
            >side by side with her, together and equally.
            >
            >
            CANCER MAN
            >
            >The most sensitive man and the weakest emotional type in all Zodiac. Most
            >Artists are Cancer. Cancer is controlled by the "Moon" and the moon change
            >it's shape daily, so Cancer man's emotional and moods change all the time
            >too. You will confuse with him and yet it is his constantly changes that
            >"Charm" you. He never go to get what he wants directly, but he will wait for
            >a chance and opportunity to do so. Once he gets what he wants, he will not
            >loose it, except if he get tired of it by himself.
            >
            >The most sensitive man who can not stand rejection. He cares what other
            >people feel or think of him. He hates loosing face and he tends to over
            >protected himself, so sometimes people might think he is a cold person.
            >
            >Gifted, creative, imaginative, is Cancer. A mystery and complexity play a
            >major role in a life of a Cancer man. He could be very funny, very quiet,
            >suddenly very sad. Living with him could be very unexpected, for you will
            >not know what is his next mood. If you like excitement and surprise, you
            >have the right guy and never have a chance to get bored.
            >
            >He thinks of his home as "nest" and it is the safest place for him. If he
            >feels hurt or depress he will stay at home alone quietly. Once he feels
            >better, he will come out of his retreat and lives normally again. Being a
            >looser is not him.
            >
            >It is so easy to fall in love with this guy because he is gentle and a very
            >polite guy. His wit and creative mind could win your affection. He will come
            >out from his nest to protect you even if he is not opening himself up to
            >other people much. Not many people will win his heart. His security is only
            >when he has money in his pocket. Once he feels secure then he might think of
            >having a happy family. Even he likes to make and keep money, he is not
            >stingy. Spending money is part of his good image, so he will be happy to
            >spent money to take you out to a very expensive restaurant or buy a jewelry
            >for you. Certainly when he has money OK.
            >
            >He is possessive to everything's that he thinks belong to him. Don't try to
            >talk to another cute guy in front of him, he will get suspicion because he
            >is not very secure or confident in himself for this kind of competition.
            >
            >Once you know each other too much, he will start to look for new excitement,
            >but not to worry for he will always think of you. If he thinks you are the
            >true love for him, and you try once to disappear. You will be sure he will
            >come and look for you.
            >
            >He is a shy guy, but if he likes you. You can get up in the morning and see
            >that he is in front of your house everyday till you go out with him, a very
            >persistent guy.
            >
            >He likes a secure, cheerful and lively woman, confident but at the same time
            >always act proper and appropriate. He likes a secure woman, but able to
            >adjust to his rapid changes. A very difficult type to find woman indeed.
            >
            >In the beginning, you and him will be so sugary sweet together and he will
            >only think of you. This so "super romantic" will not last forever, so don't
            >slip this chance. If you are the one who want his interest, then act and
            >make yourself interesting. Be a supportive person and give him compliment
            >sometimes, but not too much till he thinks you are not sincere.
            >
            >Unlike many other Zodiac, if he is mad then you better get out of that room.
            >He will calm down by himself. Giving him a slight touch on his shoulders or
            >concerned facial __expression are enough. He loves his mother, so try to be
            >his mother favorite, but do not act like his mother!
            >
            >
            CANCER WOMAN
            >
            >When she is in love, she will act both ways. First, Shy and polite trembling
            >to be near you. Second, Attach to you like glue and trying to be with you
            >all the times. She will try to go home with you after work, or have every
            >lunch with you. It is O.K. if you like her too, but if is is not the case,
            >you will feel very uncomfortable.
            >
            >She hates to be talked about or gossiped by someone else. If she knows she
            >will be very hurt. In nature she is a shy type, except she has been
            >influenced by some other Zodiac. She is not a brave or daring type, so if
            >you like her then you better be the one who start first. She will not accept
            >her true feeling, so if you like here you better tell her first.
            >
            >She is like a musical note always change in tunes, so one minute she can be
            >funny and cheerful, and one minute she can be sad and depress. Other people
            >may think of her as "Over-acting", or "Over-reacting".
            >
            >When she is depress, she will go out and look for things to make it up. She
            >loves money, and thinks of having "Money" as "happy", not as "God". She will
            >not look down at you if you do not have a lot of money, but she will help
            >you make money, save money. She is not an extravagant person and sometimes
            >will tell you not to buy her expensive and not useful gift.
            >
            >She is the type who enjoy a long and quiet walk. Cancer woman also
            >influenced by the "moon", so under the moon light she will be fascinating
            >woman.
            >
            >She has a constant fear for many things. She fear of not being smart enough,
            >not pretty enough. Even if she is not fat, she will not be satisfy. Assuring
            >her of her look would help, because she can change mood 4 times a day.
            >
            >She is not stingy, but you will not surprise if you see she collecting old
            >or broken junks. She sees that everything are useful to her. She will find a
            >way to re-use it again some day. She is not a jealous type,but possessive.
            >
            >The best part of her is that she will sacrifice everything for her love one
            >with no limit. Don't leave her in times of troubles, she will never forget
            >it. She is not a weak type, even she looks like one, Example if you argue
            >with her, she might cry her heart out. Once you left, she will wipe her
            >tears and start clean up her apartment normally.
            >
            >She is a very careful mother and will look after her kids every steps of the
            >way. If she is a mother of your children, you are at ease, but if she is
            >your mother in law, you are in pain. Not to worry, this type of mother in
            >law will not let her own daughter being an "Old mate".
            >
            >She could be moody and argue with you in many little things like many women,
            >but she always wait and want to take care of you. If you argue with her and
            >disappear a few days, she will be waiting for you, but not for long O.K.
            >This kind of testing is risky, try not to do it.
            >
            >The Cancer woman need 2 things to be happy which are "Work" and "Love". She
            >can be live in a dusty house, but she can not live in that same house with
            >no Love.
            >
            >
            LEO MAN
            >
            >He likes to comb his hair backward, open his forehead showing a dignify
            >facial __expression. His eyes is sparkle, but slightly showing laziness. He
            >walks firmly and slowly like a lion, confident and ego proud. Outside, you
            >may think he is kind and gentle person, but inside he is a strong and secure
            >person. If he is frighten, he will re-act and respond right away. His words
            >always seem normal but mostly imply "order and demanding". He will not talk
            >fast, or can not talk fast, neither walk fast. In a crowd or at work he will
            >act normally, but not for long you will see him standing out of the crowd
            >and be a center of attention with his words, or his action.
            >
            >You might think he is a shy guy, but deep down inside he wants to power over
            >his family and his friends. He just waits for that right moment. Do not take
            >what is his, and do not order him, or else you will see a fierce lion. He
            >respects elderly and senior, but will never bow down and accept like a
            >looser for he will rather die than loose his dignity.
            >
            >He talks bluntly even on an occasion that he should not say such thing. He
            >is a compassionate guy and always look at other people on a bright side. He
            >likes people to listen to him. Even he has such a blunt and bold
            >personality, he could easily reach his goal without making any enemy.
            >
            >Once disagree with him on something, he can be very up set like a rainy
            >storm on a summer day. It will only last a short time, then he will be back
            >a cheery merry person again. He is a bright and witty guy, and he will not
            >put any efforts on something that he thinks it will not work and waste his
            >energy. He is a good planner and can well manage his job assigned. When he
            >gives order, he expect them to be carry out exactly. He is the leader type
            >that the followers love.
            >
            >He can give other people advice and solve problems for other people well,
            >except his own mess. He can be easily hurt by other people especially if you
            >do not trust or respect his ability. You could compliment him sometimes and
            >make this lion be your kitty with no difficulty. He is not a good judge for
            >he listen to many people and tend to belief all sides.
            >
            >You can hardly see a Leo man with no woman by his side. If you see him
            >alone, he could already have a love one in his heart, or just broken up with
            >one. Because he is very proud, he can change many girl friends. He will do
            >many things for the woman he loves, but loosing his face is not one of them.
            >Leo man can not live without love , because for him Love is a ray of Light.
            >
            >He likes people to rely on him, it's make him feels "in power". He may
            >complaint if he is asked for favor, but deep inside he is happy that you
            >asked him. If you offer to help him , he will refuse you right away.
            >
            >When he is broke , he can find money still. He is not careful with his way
            >of spending for he has fun with spending money and happy to buy what he
            >likes. He lets other people borrow money from him easily even if he has no
            >money, he will run to his friend to borrow money for you. He likes first
            >class , first quality of everything.
            >
            >He can work hard like a mad dog, and sometimes can be lazy like a lazy
            >sleepy cat. When he works, he is very serious. When he parties, he can be a
            >party animal. If he ask you out, you will sure have a fun and jolly time.
            >
            >He will take chance with his love life, so if you know how to handle him,
            >you will win. If he is your love one, it won't be a romance novel. You have
            >to be ready to calm him down when he over reacts to small matters because
            >your cool stability will control and ease his mood. If you can not handle or
            >understand him, your relationship will be like a demolition zone, a on and
            >off relationship till all your friends tired to hear about your breaking up
            >and making up.
            >
            >Beauty is always in the eyes of the lion. You have to be dignify to walk
            >with the lion king. Your looks is part of his image and ego and he is very
            >proud about it too. If you want his attention the first time you meet, you
            >better be astounding attractive. If you have a first conversation with him,
            >you have to show him how much you adore his thinking. He likes to talk and
            >not knowing that he likes to talk about himself.
            >
            >
            LEO WOMAN
            >
            >She will stand out of the crowd on the street. Leo woman normally tall or
            >rather tall. You will hardly see a short thick woman. When she walks she
            >walk like a queen, confident and does not look around, though as if there is
            >no one around her.
            >
            >She will dress in her own style not according to fashion. She is confident
            >of what she choose to wear. Do not buy cheap cloths where they sell in dozen
            >for her as a gift, she will hate it. Also do not buy cloths that do not
            >reflect her confident personality. She likes unique and strange cloths and
            >accessories. Being different is what she loves.
            >
            >If you want to know her, take times and be patient because she is selective
            >about people she mingles with. She's open minded, but yet she is not letting
            >people get to close to her easily. She likes sweet words and compliments,
            >but not too much.
            >
            >She smiles with anyone, but inside she thinks she is borne to be a leader.
            >She likes to be in control because it is in her nature instinct. She is a
            >graceful woman , and she has a magnetic charisma, so expect tough
            >competition.
            >
            >She is a very proud person, so do not do anything to challenge her
            >confident. She can be mad and act like a hurricane, and later can be like an
            >innocent kitten, but do not fall for her O.K. She remembers everything and
            >likes to cherish her sweet memory, so if you find her old photo albums with
            >her ex-boyfriend or love letters that will make you puke, take it easy. She
            >is keeping her sweet memory does not mean she still in love with the old
            >fool, so you do not have to panic.
            >
            >She will have many guys run after her, so if you have advantage of a good
            >background family, or a famous last name, a successful career then it's a
            >plus. She hates to be poor and she thinks love will not pay bills.
            >
            >She is a sport type and love sports. If you want to date her, prepare to
            >spend big bugs, for your first dinner with her can not be a hot dog stand,
            >but better be the best place in town. She is a generous person, so do not be
            >surprise if she give you a gift more expensive than what you gave her. She
            >likes extravaganza, no cheap gift, no cheap dinner please. Being poor or
            >broke make her depress. If you do not have lots of money, be creative and
            >make your own gift for her. It's unique quality and times spending making it
            >for her is a big deal. You can think economical, but do not be cheap.
            >
            >
            VIRGO MAN
            >
            >Time is precious for Virgo man and if you make him wait, he will consider
            >that as an insult. He hates to hear criticism and hates to be criticize. If
            >he is criticizing other people, then he must be influenced by other Zodiac.
            >He is and he likes to be a perfectionist. He always think he is doing the
            >right and appropriate thing , and often he thinks he makes no mistake. He is
            >a bright guy and could accept comments if he thinks it can improve himself.
            >He is the type who well adjusted to make changes.
            >
            >He will spent money carefully and spent it worthwhile. He will only
            >extravagant for his personnel pleasure only. He is quite romantic, a type of
            >guy who can drive 100 miles just to tell you how much he misses you. If he
            >does not care about you, he will not even spent a dime to call you locally.
            >Long distant special low rate call is also out of the question.
            >
            >He hates rough and crude people. His woman has to be clean and dress well.
            >He inspects any thing in details beside being a perfectionist, so you could
            >be lying in your bikini with a perfect figure and he can suddenly comments
            >you about your big feet. If you gain 2 pounds , he may comments you are
            >getting too fat. Before going out with this kind of guy, look at yourself
            >head to toe in the mirror and ask yourself if you are really and entirely
            >ready. Unless he dates a model, then he will have less comments.
            >
            >He is neat and tidy, so his life always in a schedule, a fix time to lunch,
            >the same time to go home. He is well knowledge about food and conscious
            >about nutrition, so you won't see this guy eating a junk food, or strange
            >and exotic food for sure.
            >
            >You will see him in social events or party if only necessary. He is gifted
            >with acting, so if he says he can not go out with you because he is sick,
            >then you will belief him. He is a hard to please when it comes to what to
            >eat, how to work, what kind of a woman to date. He always neat and tidy all
            >the times, even if he is in the army, he will be the cleanest soldier in the
            >camp. He likes to speak properly with no slang. He hates laziness and lazy
            >people. He always act like a boring mature adults, but getting to know him ,
            >you will know he has his own charm.
            >
            >He always see things clearly, so he is not the type to be blinded by love.
            >He is a kind and cool guy, but if constantly irritate with rudeness,
            >ignorant, or stupidity then he will show you that he is annoyed. You may see
            >a guy in this Zodiac dress up in an old shirt and old Jean, but if you look
            >carefully, you will see that his hair is neat and unconsciously he will
            >touch his hair a lot. His desk is always neat and if he sees small scrap
            >paper on the floor, he will pick it up or put it in the basket.
            >
            >People may think he is selfish, because when he says "No", he really means
            >it. Any favor asked , he will help but always in his own limit. The more he
            >see faults in others, the less he wants people to see his. If you want him
            >to change his faults, try to tell him gently or he could take it as an
            >insult.
            >
            >He wants love that comes with quality, so he only has a few loves in his
            >life. Woman's trick will not work with him. If he breaks up with a woman, he
            >will also try to avoid all her friends and her environments too. He is very
            >picky and every breaking up, he will be double careful next time.
            >
            >He can sweep woman with his charm, but he likes to keep his relationship
            >like a friend. He likes a sincere self confident woman, neat and clean,
            >perfect and tidy. A real two "P" , picky and perfectionist Zodiac.
            >
            >
            VIRGO WOMAN
            >
            >She will be similar to Leo woman in appearance. A slim woman who walks with
            >confident and proud. She has an egg shape facial structure, high and round
            >forehead. She likes to look straight as if she is searching. She is not a
            >pretentious type and will always say what she thinks.
            >
            >You will see Virgo woman walks fast. She will try her best to be perfect, to
            >look perfect and to feel perfect even though there is no such perfection.
            >She is very delicate of what and how she dress. She is bright and easily
            >despair with obstacles. She likes smart guy who will be compatible with her,
            >so if you are a rich dumb guy, you can forget about her right now.
            >
            >She is not a very possessive or jealous person for she expect respect from
            >her love one. She does not like a part time lover, or a temporary mate. If
            >she finds her dream man, she will not go away. If she does not like you, she
            >will always keep a certain distant. Act proper and appropriate is her
            >discipline.
            >
            >She does not like and can not stand bad languages, cursing words or phrase.
            >She likes a gentleman who open the doors for her. She wants to feel
            >protected and when a man taking care of her, she will feel like a complete
            >woman.
            >
            >She memorizes everything about other people and about herself very well. She
            >can really keep secret, you can trust her on this. She likes a refreshing
            >and a mild scent. She is very delicate in maintaining her beauty, so you
            >could see she is seriously picking soap which match and most suit her skin.
            >Do not comments her on this very picky habits, it is her happiness in
            >working full times as a self beautifier.
            >
            >She is not an innocent angle for sometimes she can be as tough as steel.
            >Even she easily despair, she is not the type to cry over it. She is a shy
            >type, so making speech in front of the room can make her nervous even she
            >walks and talks confidently.
            >
            >She only search for true love , not just any love. Her love is an ideal one.
            >She likes to think no one is neater and as effective as her, which can
            >irritate you sometimes for there is no such thing. She likes sweet talk, but
            >she can slip and say something unpredictable and unbearable to you too. When
            >she stops getting mad, she will totally forget what she just said and be an
            >angle again. If you have a date with her , you'd better be there on time.
            >
            >Flowers and sweet word can calm her down. If you want to say sorry , make it
            >brief and straight forward. Do not drag your apologetic words into a long
            >making it up events, it could lead you to another world war. She likes her
            >man to dress nice and clean. She is good in details especially with money.
            >Do not make she thinks that she is a clown or funny.
            >
            >In the beginning of knowing her, please try not to glance at other pretty
            >woman so much. Early period of dating her, try not to hold her so much in
            >public, it would not be a proper thing to do. She loves books, stage play
            >and music and likes to criticize about them too.
            >
            >Criticism woman is her icon including big and small things in life starting
            >from your hair, your dress , and the way you talk. If you are in love with
            >her, be as almost perfect as your can.
            >
            >
            LIBRA MAN
            >
            >A man who has no balance like his Zodiac symbol. He is not the gentle, cool
            >, calm and charming guy like what you see. He has another dark side of
            >aggression, stubborn and he likes to start an argument the most. Sometimes
            >he can be so depress and unstable. Up and down like he is trying to balance
            >himself most of the time.
            >
            >To many people, he is a friendly guy and always smile even when he is mad or
            >up set. His voice always gentle and calm. he always set and comb his hair as
            >if he comes out from a shampoo advertisement. Mostly Libra men are good
            >looking, even the ugly one is charming. When he smiles, it is so bright that
            >the whole world is smiling with him too.
            >
            >When he is in a balance mood, he is the type of person you want to be with.
            >In other unbalancing mood, he likes to make people argue about something and
            >watching it with fascination and fun. He will wait to be the one who
            >compromise and clear thing up. He likes to be in a conflicting conversation.
            >
            >Libra man is lazy by nature. After his tired day at work, he likes to sit
            >still and just look out of the window or read quietly. He likes to be in his
            >own world. After recharging his battery, he will be very energetic again and
            >may even take you out that night.
            >
            >Libra man normally will not do any shocking or abnormal things to be
            >noticed. He likes to be conformed with his crowd, but if you watch him
            >carefully, you will see the different. If he wear a shirt, it will have to
            >be a zipper front instead of buttons, or a special tie bar. There is always
            >something in him that he will not allow totally conformity to take him over.
            >
            >A straight forward , no non-sense guy. He is careful and delicate in
            >details. He will spent extra time to doing it right, than comes back to
            >correct them later. He hates people who boost, or exaggerate. He does not
            >like over dressed woman or make herself a center of an attention.
            >
            >He loves to read. He loves poems and loves art. When he works he can work
            >like crazy, but after work he can turn on romantic jazzy music and treat you
            >so gently. He loves to give people advice and normally give a good advice.
            >If you fall for him, you will stay like being trapped in a spider web. If
            >you want to break up with him, he will persuade you a zillion ways to stay
            >and you can not stop him anyway. After he persuade you to stay, or after a
            >big fight, he will be so sweet to you as if he has never hurt your feeling
            >before ever.
            >
            >He will has his own way to win a girl love and affection. Once she says yes,
            >he will lay back and wonder if he should go on or if he should back out. In
            >his teen, he changed many girl friends because he can not clearly separate
            >loving a friend and loving a girl friend. He will check and re-cheek if his
            >match is suitable and compatible with him.
            >
            >Even he is a romantic man, he can hardly understand the emotion of the one
            >he loves. He is a generous guy even he sets his life so systematically. He
            >never knows when he makes you unhappy. He never knows how he up set you. He
            >will never knows what he said wrong. If he is your lover, be prepare for
            >this.
            >
            >A not so pretty girl with no brain is not his type of woman. If you are not
            >pretty enough, he will not mind talking to you but he does not care to get
            >to know you. Any girls, pretty or ugly can ask for his help, he will be
            >happy to help. He hates to argue by yelling at each other, so you tend to
            >see he argue with his girl friend seriously but try at best to be very
            >quiet.
            >
            >He likes to have a girl friend by getting to know each other like a friend
            >first. If you want him, you have to like the same thing he does. He prefers
            >a pretty and gentle woman than a smart and ugly woman. You have to
            >understand his mood especially he can has many different moods. He is a
            >private person, so when he needs to be alone better let him be.
            >
            >
            LIBRA WOMAN
            >
            >Libra woman mostly has an egg oval facial shape. She has a nice smooth skin
            >and a good figure. She will spent so much efforts to keep her skin clean and
            >pretty. She can be easily allergy to cosmetic and make up, but taken care of
            >her face and avoid wrinkle is her hobby. She is good at it and tend to look
            >younger than her age.
            >
            >She can be very naughty like a little boy, but yet fully 100% woman. She
            >looks nice in either Jean or night gown. She thinks woman is equal to man.
            >Sometimes she can think faster than you, but she will not leave you far
            >behind. She will try not to make you feel like you are competed or defeated
            >in any games she plays with you even she is winning.
            >
            >She is a little flirt even she has no idea what she wants. She can not
            >decide what to do, and what not to do, so she can not set her schedule very
            >well in all cases.
            >
            >She is gifted with how to dress, and how to match her dress. She likes to
            >dress in black and wear perfume. She likes a mild flowery scent.
            >
            >In any argument, she can really argue. She can argue for hours, and mostly
            >win the argument. If it is not a serious argument, she could argue and once
            >a while give you a smile also. She will make a good politician, because she
            >can tell which party will win the election.
            >
            >She always has a good reasons ,even she likes to contradict herself. She can
            >not decide what is right and wrong for her, because everything has a good
            >side and a bad side. Woman in other Zodiac might not care what other people
            >think, but Libra woman care what other people ,or what you feel as much as
            >her own feeling.
            >
            >She can adjust to her environment very well, so at work she will be at the
            >ladder up. She likes team work in doing things. If you ask her for help or
            >advice, she will help you except if she does not like your guts. She can
            >change you and make you think you change by yourself without her influence.
            >
            >Good side of being with Libra woman are she never interfere with your
            >privacy. She will not make you loose face in front of your friends. Even she
            >cares about how much money she has left his her bank account, she will never
            >forget to let you know how much she cares for you.
            >
            >She think taken care of the house is a woman job and she can do it well. But
            >if you expect a Libra woman to fear you, then you are wrong. She is a strong
            >woman even she looks at you with that sweet innocent pairs of baby's looks
            >and may loose you (let you win) in a few poker games.
            >
            >If she is the one you are after, then go step by step. The best way is using
            >her friends introducing you to her. Do not make her feel or treat her like a
            >bubble head. You have to move forward toward her with confident and secure.
            >Show her that you are a kind , polite and a real gentleman. Be a slow hand
            >or else you might get smack!
            >
            >
            SCORPIO MAN
            >
            >A man with a foggy clouds over him. He is sensitive and easily hurt and
            >always feels lonely. He does not trust anyone but himself. Sounding so
            >negative, but he has an amazingly charisma. He is a compassionate man . He
            >absorbs other people sentimental feeling and pain.
            >
            >He is a good psychiatrist and he could understand complex and confused
            >feeling. He has a hidden power that he could use it to make things happen
            >and do things well. He does not like people who never try to help themselves
            >before asking other people for favors. He is the type of guy who mostly
            >achieved his goal in life.Once he sets his mind for something, he will put
            >all his energy and efforts in it , whether or not it is a small matter or a
            >big project. One of the most success man in all the Zodiac.
            >
            >He is a very patient man and can waits for years to reach his goal. He hates
            >thin feeling and weak determinations. He can not retreat or rest for long,
            >for he thinks life has more questions and more answer to be searched.
            >
            >If he is in love, you will get plenty of love from him, sometimes may be too
            >much than you have asked for. He is serious about love and relationship and
            >will not waste time with someone he does not love whether how pretty she is.
            >
            >He hardly makes mistake. He could tell if you have any bad thought, and will
            >not hesitate to tell you so. If you do not like straight forward sincere
            >man, then pack your bag now. If you are an over sensitive person, try not to
            >ask for his comments. He will tell you the truth, even you might not be able
            >to take it. Example , if you ask him if you are fat (and you are fat), he
            >will say "yes, as big as a balloon". He makes such comments because he cares
            >for you, so do something about your weight and do not get up set with him.
            >
            >If he says "you look pretty today", you can be proud because he will not say
            >such think just to please you if he does not really mean it. There will be
            >both kind of people, those who like him and those who hate him. If you are
            >in love this guy, be strong and belief in your decision, do not be
            >vulnerable. He remembers all his anger and will wait for his pay back time.
            >
            >He is very serious about your promise, do not promise something you could
            >not keep. He loves his friends and will do anything for his close friends.
            >He likes you to take care of him, but not in front of his friend. He is a
            >complex man and you will never understand what he means if you do not really
            >know him. He is happy to know he is a complex figure. When he is thinking or
            >when he needs his privacy, you should give him some space.
            >
            >He memorize everything well. You may say something that you already
            >forgotten, but he will remember every words. He wants to be respected and
            >admired and at the same time he does not like people to have power over him.
            >
            >When he falls in love, he really falls deep. A man in this Zodiac once in
            >love, he will be sweeter than sugar. He does not like a plain and simple
            >woman. A complex woman's mind is his venture. Always be interesting and able
            >to talk to him about every things in any subjects. He does not like a woman
            >who sits around waiting for his call.
            >
            >
            SCORPIO WOMAN
            >
            >A simple woman who always show what kind of a moods she is in. You can tell
            >right way if she up set, or if she is flirting with you. She displays
            >herself with her act much more than trying to say it for it's in her
            >character.
            >
            >A Scorpio woman has her own mysterious personality. She is confident and
            >deep down inside she is quite proud of herself. She hates to think she is
            >borne a woman and so limiting her with a certain social acceptable rules.
            >She is a real woman and despite her innocent and childish looks, she has a
            >spirit of free soul. Many men will make mistake if they think she is a good
            >follower, they are wrong.
            >
            >She thinks being a plain simple housewife is boring. She likes to have power
            >and control over other people, but this will be only her secret, so you will
            >only see a cute woman. Every things she does will look good, and she has all
            >the woman's trick you can think of. She can manipulate men without they
            >knowing it.
            >
            >If you think she going to do everything you say because she loves you, then
            >you will be disappointed. She could be a little tomboyish and she can
            >understand you by just looking in your eyes. You may say sweet words which
            >could sweep any woman, but not with the Scorpio woman. She will use her
            >X-ray eyes reading your thought of what you just said or what you are going
            >to say. She always smile and she can really hide her feeling.
            >
            >She will constantly show you that she loves freedom. If she has freedom, she
            >will not leave you, but will even love you more. If she wants something, she
            >will do everything to get it. She has her own sixth sense of people and you
            >can feel that energy feed back when you around her. She likes a man who can
            >earn her respect, and she will also respect and feel proud of that man. A
            >man with power over her should not threat or challenge her confident. She
            >likes to have a good looking , strong and healthy man especially if she
            >start to compare with her friends' boyfriends. It is a plus if he hold a
            >degree or a good career.
            >
            >She is a hot lady. She likes heavy music. She either loves or hates, there
            >are no "fond of", or "like" for her. Love has no "may be", or "perhaps". If
            >she is real mad, she will trash and throw things. Her wind storm can sweep
            >all her dishes and you could get accidentally hit on your head for this
            >matter. Be calm, it is just your grand mother favorite china for she has
            >good quality as much as her bad tempered.
            >
            >Sometimes she shows her weakness, but it won't be long. She will put herself
            >together and back to be that hot chili again. If she loves you, it will be
            >no matter what other people may say. Her relationship will be more important
            >than what is right or wrong. Because of this reason, you may know some
            >Scorpio woman become a second wife, a mistress.
            >
            >She is spoil, but she allows her love one to over power her. Dating this
            >woman, you should not keep old love letters in your pocket or in your house.
            >It could be a love letter 2 years ago, but never mind she will argue about
            >this since this is a big deal for a suspicious woman. Remember she has a
            >temper of the shrew.
            >
            >If you play a cold war with her, she will treat you likewise and double it.
            >If you stood her up once, she will stood you up 2-3 times. She is quite fair
            >in justice, so she can accept your apologies as much as she can pretend to
            >accept things for now and wait for a pay back revenge in the future. If you
            >are nice to hear, she will double that to you as well. A real fair woman.
            >
            >She likes to make and spent money. She likes to have fame and reputations,
            >and never let herself broke and have no name at the same time. She is too
            >proud and will not accept status of being "Poor". She loves to have face, so
            >if you are a manager with small salary, she will be proud more than more
            >money being a truck driver. She hates to think and she can not stand a
            >feeling of being a "Nobody".
            >
            >If you like her, play a little hard to get. This will excite her a bit. When
            >you go out on a date, set your schedule, but do not let she knows that you
            >have planned this for weeks. Always go to pick her up on time or better to
            >go 5-10 minutes early.
            >
            >
            SAGITTARIUS MAN
            >
            >A man who loves social life and curious about every new progress, new
            >development to make sure he is in the era and always have all up date
            >information. He likes to know what is the latest trend of fashion and make
            >sure he is not out of style. You can easily spot him at the grand opening of
            >new pub, new restaurant for he loves to participate in social activity.
            >
            >There is a few Sagittarius who is a private person as well, but you could
            >see that he will be ahead of his friends. He will knows what is the best
            >seller book, what are the top 10 hot hit of the week. The hottest movies
            >showing now, he must have already seen it.
            >
            >He hates routine, It makes him bored. He likes to get to his goals and
            >succeeding in doing so is his true reward. Money making is O.K. but it is
            >not his true joy, for he can easily spent them in a short while. They say if
            >you want the truth, go and ask Sagittarius. They are right, you can ask him
            >and he will tell you all the truth and very straight forward. Even he may
            >speak bluntly, his friends loves him. If you have problems, all your friends
            >may feel sorry for you, but Sagittarius will be the one who will give you a
            >helping hand first and even expect no return favor. That's why he is a real
            >charmer even sometimes big mouth.
            >
            >When he is mad , he can be quite fierce but quickly dissolve and easily
            >forgotten. He is not a person who will take a revenge, so if he say he going
            >to burn down your house, you can relax. He likes compliments and sweet
            >words, so you can manipulate him easily. If he knows you are not sincere,
            >you will totally become meaningless to him.
            >
            >Some Sagittarius are gifted musician, or singer. He is a happy soul, has a
            >good humor and has lots of jokes. He loves freedom, lively and very
            >energetic. If he is working, he will take his job seriously. He likes to
            >travel, likes to see new exciting places. Going out or traveling make him
            >happy.
            >
            >Sagittarius man is like a free bird. He lives as if everyday is Sunday. He
            >will hardly be in a bad mood, but if he is in a bad mood, you will better
            >leave his sight. If you want to talk to him in such mood, try to avoid issue
            >of commenting his life. He flirts like other man, but he has a built in
            >brake, so he will come back to you by himself. If he disappear for a few
            >days, not to worry for he is only recharging his battery to be that same
            >lively person again, them he will be back.
            >
            >He has allergies to Pretty woman, so in love with many woman for him would
            >be normal. Setting dating schedule is his games and it's fun for him, and
            >this will keep him from being bored. He hates obligations, so the word
            >"marriage" would suffocated him. If you allow him to have freedom, he will
            >not go anywhere.
            >
            >He falls in love as easy as he catches cold, especially if she is cute,
            >funny and she has a strong personality. No one can tell how long he will be
            >in love each time. If you want to really hold Sagittarius man, act like you
            >are in an adventure movie. At all time, you should make yourself lively,
            >tells him some jokes, always be cute so that it will ease up his allergy to
            >other pretty woman a bit.
            >
            >
            SAGITTARIUS WOMAN
            >
            >A tall slim and graceful woman who walked proudly like she is walking in a
            >beauty pageant competition. If she slips or nearly falls, she will nicely
            >covered it up and continue with her graceful and impressive walking step.
            >She knows how to use make up to enhance her beauty. She looks at the world
            >positively, so her face always seem so happy. She will not get up set
            >easily.
            >
            >Self confident woman who belief in her own style. She will not follow
            >fashion, but standing in between simplicity and too modern. She is a very
            >open person, sometimes can be too blunt. She is an honest person and never
            >try to cause troubles for any one.
            >
            >She likes to say something that you do not want to hear and yet she can say
            >something so pleasing at the same time. Example she may say "I wish you
            >could make more money, so you could afford better cloth, but anyway it is
            >better this way. If you make more money you could be thinking of money too
            >much and become greedy". She can say such thing and make you wonder if you
            >should get up set or love her more.
            >
            >She is also a free spirit and does not like to stay home. She likes to be
            >protected, but not to give her orders. She has no respect to a weak man. If
            >she try to over powered you, then you have to calm her down and try to
            >control her to be in a limit by doing the same thing too. She will listen if
            >she respect you. She likes to be herself and like her guy to be himself.
            >
            >She is a no nonsense woman, so you will not hear she says " Guess what I
            >will do next", or "Guess what I am thinking" because she always say what she
            >is thinking out loud like a guy. If you do not understand her in this
            >matter, you could easily break up with her. She sees problems in her love
            >life as another funny story.
            >
            >She is clumsy and it is in her nature. You may think it is cute, but for
            >some neat guys this could be so unbearable. She is very friendly, so she can
            >easily turn her enemy to be her friends. She has good taste in fine cloths,
            >good food, first class and first services. Even a poor woman in this Zodiac
            >will struggle to afford such good taste. She could spent lots of money as if
            >she can not understand how difficult it is to make money. If you think of
            >let her borrow money, think again.
            >
            >She is a paranoid. If she thinks you like her, she may already think about
            >getting marry and lost her freedom and so on and on. A jolly woman who loves
            >sports. She is an ordinary woman who could dress like a tomboy. She has more
            >guy friends and sometimes could act like one of a guy. She does not care
            >about rumors, so she can get home very late and couldn't careless what her
            >neighbor will gossip about her. She thinks either good or bad, you will know
            >it yourself , so you should not bother what people think.
            >
            >Her wit and innocent look are her charms. She is often hurts from love, but
            >never afraid to look for a new one as if she is singing "Do that to me one
            >more time". She likes going straight and being straight forward. She will
            >not go around to get what she wants, or beat around the bush just to say
            >something. If you meet her and tell her straight what you think, she will
            >admire you.
            >
            >
            >
            >"Life is the first gift, love is the second, and understanding the third." --Marge Piercy
            >"Happiness is a function of accepting what is." --Werner Erhard
            >"There are two ways of meeting difficulties: you alter the difficulties, or you alter yourself to meet them." --Phyllis Bottome

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            • #7
              OMG Jemay! This Zodiac thingy is soooo true for me (Libra) and SO (Scorpio)!

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              • #8
                oh, u r libra too?? Me too!!!! No wonder we clicked :yaya:

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                • #9
                  I came across this, and I think its really true:

                  The Best Kind of Love

                  I have a friend who is falling in love. She honestly claims the sky is bluer. Mozart moves her to tears. She has lost 15 pounds and looks like a cover girl.

                  "I'm young again!" she shouts exuberantly. As my friend raves on about her new love, I've taken a good look at my old one.

                  My husband of almost 20 years, Scott, has gained 15 pounds. Once a marathon runner, he now runs only down hospital halls. His hairline is receding and his body shows the signs of long working hours and too many candy bars. Yet he can still give me a certain look across a restaurant table and I want to ask for the check and head home. When my friend asked me "What will make this love last?" I ran through all the obvious reasons: commitment, shared interests, unselfishness, physical attraction, communication.

                  Yet there's more.
                  We still have fun. Spontaneous good times. Yesterday, after slipping the rubber band off the rolled up newspaper, Scott flipped it playfully at me: this led to an all-out war. Last Saturday at the grocery, we split the
                  list and raced each other to see who could make it Even washing dishes can be a blast. We enjoy simply being together.

                  And there are surprises.
                  One time I came home to find a note on the front door that led me to another note, then another, until I reached the walk-in closet. I opened the door to find Scott holding a "pot of gold" (my cooking kettle) and the "treasure" of a gift package. Sometimes I leave him notes on the mirror
                  and little presents under his pillow.

                  There is understanding.
                  I understand why he must play basketball with the guys. And he
                  understands why, once a year, I must get away from the house, the kids - and even
                  him - to meet my sisters for a few days of non-stop talking and laughing.

                  There is sharing.
                  Not only do we share household worries and parental burdens - we also share ideas. Scott came home from a convention last month and presented me with a thick historical novel. Though he prefers thrillers and science fiction, he had read the novel on the plane. He touched my heart when he
                  explained it was because he wanted to be able to exchange ideas about the book after I'd read it.

                  There is forgiveness.
                  When I'm embarrassingly loud and crazy at parties, Scott forgives me.
                  When he confessed losing some of our savings in the stock market, I gave him a hug and said, "It's okay. It's only money."

                  There is sensitivity.
                  Last week he walked through the door with that look that tells me it's been a tough day. After he spent some time with the kids, I asked him what happened. He told me about a 60-year-old woman who'd had a stroke. He wept as he recalled the woman's husband standing beside her bed, caressing her hand. How was he going to tell this husband of 40 years that his wife
                  would probably never recover? I shed a few tears myself. Because of the medical crisis. Because there were still people who have been married 40 years. Because my husband is still moved and concerned after years of hospital rooms and dying patients.

                  There is faith.
                  Last Tuesday a friend came over and confessed her fear that her husband is losing his courageous battle with cancer.
                  On Wednesday I went to lunch with a friend who is struggling to reshape her life after divorce. On Thursday a neighbor called to talk about the frightening effects of Alzheimer's disease on her father-in-law's personality. On Friday a childhood friend called long-distance to tell me her father had died. I hung up the phone and thought, "This is too much heartache for one week."

                  Through my tears, as I went out to run some errands, I noticed the boisterous orange blossoms outside my window.
                  I heard the delighted laughter of my son and his friend as they played. I caught sight of a wedding party emerging from a neighbor's house. The bride, dressed in satin and lace, tossed her
                  bouquet to her cheering friends. That night, I told my husband about these events. We helped each other acknowledge the cycles of life and that the joys counter the sorrows. It was enough to keep us going.

                  Finally, there is knowing.
                  I know Scott will throw his laundry just shy of the hamper every night; he'll be late to most appointments and eat the last chocolate in the box. He knows that I sleep with a pillow over
                  my head; I'll lock us out of the house at a regular basis, and I will also eat the last chocolate.

                  I guess our love lasts because it is comfortable.
                  No, the sky is not bluer: it's just a familiar hue.
                  We don't feel particularly young: we've experienced too much that has contributed to our growth and wisdom, taking its toll on our bodies, and created our memories.

                  I hope we've got what it takes to make our love last. As a bride, I had Scott's wedding band engraved with Robert Browning's line "Grow old along with me!". We're following those instructions.
                  "If anything is real, the heart will make it plain."

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                  • #10
                    Thoughts

                    Something to share with you girls



                    >THE ONE FLAW IN WOMEN


                    >> >By the time the Lord made woman, he was into his sixth day of working overtime. An angel appeared and said, "Why are you spending so much time on this one?"

                    >>

                    >> >And the Lord answered, "Have you seen my spec sheet on her?

                    >>She has to be completely washable, but not plastic, have over 200 movable parts, all replaceable and able to run on diet coke and leftovers, have a lap that can hold four children at one time, have a kiss that can cure anything from a scraped knee to a broken heart-and she will do everything with only two hands."

                    >> >

                    >> >The angel was astounded at the requirements. "Only two hands!? No way! And that's just on the standard model? That's too much work for one day. Wait until tomorrow to finish."

                    >> >

                    >> >" But I won't," the Lord protested. "I am so close to finishing this creation that is so close to my own heart. She already heals herself when she is sick AND can work 18 hour days."

                    >> >

                    >> >The angel moved closer and touched the woman. "But you have made her so soft, Lord." "She is soft," the Lord agreed, "but I have also made her tough. You have no idea what she can endure or accomplish."

                    >> >

                    >> >"Will she be able to think?", asked the angel. The Lord replied, "Not only will she be able to think, she will be able to

                    >>reason and negotiate." The angel then noticed something, and reaching out, touched the woman's cheek.

                    >>

                    >> >"Oops, it looks like you have a leak in this model. I told you that you were trying to put too much into this one." "That's not a leak," the Lord corrected, "that's a tear!" "What's the tear for?" the angel asked.

                    The Lord said, "The tear is her way of expressing her joy, her sorrow, her pain, her disappointment, her love, her loneliness, her grief and her pride."

                    >> >

                    >> >The angel was impressed. "You are a genius, Lord. You thought of everything! Woman is truly amazing."

                    >> >And she is! Women have strengths that amaze men They bear hardships and they carry burdens, but they hold happiness, love and joy. They smile when they want to scream. They sing when they want to cry. They cry when they are happy and laugh when they are nervous. They fight for what they believe in. They stand up to injustice They don't take "no" for an answer when they believe there is a better solution. They go without so their family can have. They go to the doctor with a frightened friend. They love unconditionally. They cry when their children excel and cheer when their friends get awards. They are happy when they hear about a birth or a wedding. Their hearts break when a friend dies. They grieve at the loss of a family member, yet they are strong when they think there is no strength left. They know that a hug and a kiss can heal a broken heart.

                    >> >

                    >> >Women come in all shapes, sizes and colors. They'll drive, fly, walk, run or e-mail you to show how much they care about you. The heart of a woman is what makes the world keep turning. They bring joy, hope and love. They have compassion and ideals. They give moral support to their family and friends. Women have vital things to say and everything to give.

                    >> >HOWEVER, IF THERE IS ONE FLAW IN WOMEN, IT IS THAT THEY FORGET THEIR WORTH. PLEASE pass this along to all your women friends and relatives to remind them just how amazing they are...

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                    • #11
                      wow..that really is beautiful!Thanks for sharing...

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                      • #12
                        Anodyne

                        I love how it swells
                        into a temple where it is
                        held prisoner, where the god
                        of blame resides. I love
                        slopes & peaks, the secret
                        paths that make me selfish.
                        I love my crooked feet
                        shaped by vanity & work
                        shoes made to outlast
                        belief. The hardness
                        coupling milk it can't
                        fashion. I love the lips,
                        salt & honeycomb on the tongue.
                        The hair holding off rain
                        & snow. The white moons
                        on my fingernails. I love
                        how everything begs
                        blood into song & prayer
                        inside an egg. A ghost
                        hums through my bones
                        like Pan's midnight flute
                        shaping internal laws
                        beside a troubled river.
                        I love this body
                        made to weather the storm
                        in the brain, raised
                        out of the deep smell
                        of fish & water hyacinth,
                        out of rapture & the first
                        regret. I love my big hands.
                        I love it clear down to the soft
                        quick motor of each breath,
                        the liver's ten kinds of desire
                        & the kidney's lust for sugar.
                        This skin, this sac of dung
                        & joy, this spleen floating
                        like a compass needle inside
                        nighttime, always divining
                        West Africa's dusty horizon.
                        I love the birthmark
                        posed like a fighting cock
                        on my right shoulder blade.
                        I love this body, this
                        solo & ragtime jubilee
                        behind the left nipple,
                        because I know I was born
                        to wear out at least
                        one hundred angels.

                        ?YUSEF KOMUNYAKAA

                        Celebrate being every inch a woman.

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                        • #13
                          The Zodiac thing is SOOOO true for me too!!

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                          • #14
                            Its so detailed!

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                            • #15
                              the zodiac is quite true about me and my so

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