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    What are your opinions on porn? How do you feel about it? Do you mind if your bf or husband looks at it?

    Most people agree that "All" guys look at porn but this is not true, there are guys that don't look at that stuff. I know that the porn industry is a massive industry and it is everywhere, but does this make it acceptable? My bf will look at it from time to time and personally, it makes me feel disgusted. I mean, why does he have to look at other naked ladies when he has ME? I asked him why he has to look at this stuff and he simply replied "because I am a guy, and guys like looking at naked girls"...arghh I really bothers me.

    I would love to hear any comments on this topic........

    Thanks

  • #2
    I don't think I know a single guy who doesn't look at it, young guys anyway. I honestly don't mind if my boyfriend does, after all it doesn't mean anything.

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    • #3
      but doesnt it bother you that he looks at other women naked and imagine them in a sexual way?

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      • #4
        IMO porn is perfectly normal and acceptable by both sexes alike. Absolutely nothing wrong at all. As long as it's nothing obsessive or addictive. Like i always say, make your own judgement. Hahaha...

        I find them a form of release. No good to have everything bottled up. Ideally, the person watching it is above 21 y/o and mature enough to make own judgement. Since most of the scene are directed or acted out meant to bring you to another world of fantasy. Some people do watch them to enhance or wiser their skills. LoL! nothing wrong with it too, as long as you know who you are doing it with. That's more important.

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        • #5
          Acceptable. In fact, I would find it funny if he tells me he doesn't watch porn. Better porn than him lusting after the girls on the street.

          So long as he doesn't call the wrong name during sex.

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          • #6
            all yeah, saying the wrong name.. that's a big NONO!! no saint ladies will want this to happen to them. I can't take it for sure!!

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            • #7
              I know perfectly normal men who do not watch porn at all (yes, it's strange but true- there are a lot of them out there), and I would not agree that watching porn is a "natural" thing to do.

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              • #8
                i wouldnt mind if my bf watches it...
                afterall, it is so easily accessible here and on the internet

                perhaps forbidden fruit taste the best? :roll:

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                • #9
                  I agree, nat - forbidden fruit seems tastiest!

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                  • #10
                    hey, i guess it's normal for guys to watch porn.

                    but personally i myself find it disgusting. not to the extent that i won't look at it or feel utterly disgusted with the guy.

                    but if i know a guy keeps tons of video on his com or watched it regularly, i think there's a prob. n i will feel disgusted with the guy if he watched it regularly.

                    it's one thing to watch it once in a while( to relieve tension whatever) n another to have to watch it or like to watch it whenever one is bored.

                    surely, there must be other better ways to occupy oneself.

                    n some guys start to lose respect for gals n treat them like some kinda sex objects. n i have no respect for people like that.

                    it's as if there's not much of meaning in their life....

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                    • #11
                      Actually i do find it disturbing at first when i found out and really hated it to the core (not porn -SO dislikes porn- but women's sexy photos fr FHM or anywhere).. but now, i'm sort of immuned to it already. However, if i'm around and happened to see it, i will sulk for a while (simply cant help it) and later, will be alright again as long as its not a daily routine, perhaps once a month is fine with me

                      p.s :the funny part is, when SO gets the FHM/Maxim , i'll be the first one to read it and he'll read  like 2 weeks later if he remembers it!lol 

                      A bit off topic here to get a general idea on what women think and reactions..

                      1. How do u react if your guy looks at other woman who is dressed sexily, big boobs, long legs or simply beautiful and make comments such as, wow.. nice legs etc.

                      2. Think that your friend is pleasant looking

                      3. Will u be afraid to introduce your attractive looking friends to SO?

                      4. Dislike u dressing sexily

                      5. How about, will u get jealous if he looks at girls photos? lol
                      Edit : girls photos in fhm mag etc

                      Cheers

                      Last edited by cherie; 16-11-2004, 09:40 AM.

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                      • #12
                        hi cherie, me answers:

                        1) i can't help but feel jealous if the gal is indeed attractive. but if she like big boobs only n look so so or dress sexily but not that pretty, it doesn't bother me i guess. n if he does it too many times, i will make noise. he can look but he doesn't have to point it out often as i can't help but feel jealous.... hehe...

                        2)i am fine with it unless he starts asking more about my fren, then that's it, no more meeting ups etc. i will have my red alert on! :piss:

                        3)i wouldn't. esp with those i trust. i tust my SO and my good frens. if a fren/accquintance is of the flirty sort, i would keep my eyes wide open! haha...

                        4)if he likes looking at gals who dress sexily n he stops me from doing so. all the more i would do it. hehe... in fact, i m quite rebellious. actually, i find this silly. if i look good, he'll look good too. i would want him to look good too. won't want to him to dress down to avoid attention.

                        5)depends on y he is looking. if he is jus flipping thru or someone shows it to him n he happens to see a pretty gal n comment, i m fine. if he jus wanna check gals out, i'll be unhappy. i mean, c'mon, he can't be that desperate to jus wanna see "choi bus" so badly right??

                        i sound a little possessive now, don't i? hehe...

                        what about the rest?

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                        • #13
                          I think Porn is like a fantasy. All the positions, people, styles and watnot does not happen in real life, doesnt it.
                          Even Porn actors/actresses admit that they dun have sex like that in their personal life.

                          Guys are visual creatures and they always will be.
                          Porn is only there to fulfill their fantasies and provide visual entertainment.

                          Believe it or not, sex differs from 'making love'.
                          Ask any guy and most prob they will tell u that having sex with a gal they love is the greatest 'porn' of all.

                          So dearies, dun be flustered by ur guy looking at such materials.

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by suGarsweet

                            Believe it or not, sex differs from 'making love'.
                            Ask any guy and most prob they will tell u that having sex with a gal they love is the greatest 'porn' of all.


                            Totally agreed with sugarsweet!

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                            • #15
                              I wouldn't be happy if my BF views porn....

                              But of cus ignorance is bliss... I guess what I don't know, wouldn't hurt me... *shrugs*

                              As long as I do not catch him in the act, then its OK...

                              But if i do, i would be terribly upset & extremely DISGUSTED!!

                              1. How do u react if your guy looks at other woman who is dressed sexily, big boobs, long legs or simply beautiful and make comments such as, wow.. nice legs etc.

                              Ans: Jealous >.< And perharps feel inferior.....

                              2. Think that your friend is pleasant looking

                              Ans: Pleasant looking is acceptable..
                              As long as he doesn't go "She's hot, gorgeous, God's gift to men.. etc" Then it's fine with me!!

                              3. Will u be afraid to introduce your attractive looking friends to SO?

                              Ans: Hmmmm.... I guess not, my friends are pretty good-looking & I do not find myself getting jealous over them whenever I bring my BF out to tag along with them.

                              4. Dislike u dressing sexily

                              Ans: LOL.... He doesnt like it when I wear those lovely Abercrombie minis etc.
                              However, I still get to wear them but only when he is around.
                              He is afraid of me getting "taken advantage" of... Which I can fully understand since I have been getting stalked around MRT stations :roll:

                              5. How about, will u get jealous if he looks at girls photos? lol

                              Ans: I do get jealous!! Even if it's a celeb.... lol~
                              Everyone most probably thinks that I am such a nut-case GF!!
                              But yes I do!! of cus he would reassure me that I'm still the prettiest in his eyes.. Well, I'm a shucker for sweet talk, so most of the time, I forgive him

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