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    With all the increasing Thai Disco and clubing scene or even night clubs sprawling up in Singapore... what's your view on trusting your Bf / Husband going such places with explanation such as having fun or entertaining clients etc?

    If it is for business with overseas clients or even suppliers, is that acceptable to you?

    Or if it is purely based on fun, will that be deem unacceptable to you?

    Feel free to share your views or comments

  • #2
    Originally posted by redkan28 View Post
    With all the increasing Thai Disco and clubing scene or even night clubs sprawling up in Singapore... what's your view on trusting your Bf / Husband going such places with explanation such as having fun or entertaining clients etc?

    If it is for business with overseas clients or even suppliers, is that acceptable to you?

    Or if it is purely based on fun, will that be deem unacceptable to you?

    Feel free to share your views or comments
    There's definitely hanky panky going on at Thai Disco /clubs (those girls are there to hook up and make $$$ after all). However in the end it's up to the guy whether he wants to be hooked up or not. Therefore: choose the bf that you trust and trust the bf that you chose.

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    • #3
      There could be voodoo inside thai disco or club (its just a cover but deep inside there, drinks could be 'drug')

      Anyway i dont care. The guys who like pretty thai can go die.

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      • #4
        Originally posted by guessi View Post
        There could be voodoo inside thai disco or club (its just a cover but deep inside there, drinks could be 'drug')

        Anyway i dont care. The guys who like pretty thai can go die.

        Voodoo ? I don't think so....... In these days and time, do we still need to resort to black magic spells for the men to have fun at these places? Lol !

        Anyway - why do you sound so angry ? What's wrong with guys liking pretty Thai (girls) ? Everyone likes a pretty thing ! Don't you agree ?
        Last edited by Borgen-breeze; 02-07-2012, 01:46 AM.

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        • #5
          Agree that we have to choose the bf that you trust and trust the bf will respect you!

          I think ultimately 90% of the guys if given the money and chance, they will visit such places.

          Ultimately you can do everything to stop them, what you cannot stop is their desire!

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          • #6
            I will get very worried if my man starts going to thai disco. Seems that the girls there are really good with hooking men. This friend of mine went there a couple of times and now he's married to a thai girl working there. He even gave her a sum of money every month, on top of that he gave her parents a sum of money too. Seriously i believe in voodoo. A master once told me before that such places, as well as gigolo clubs, they will practice voodoo so as to capture their customers.

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            • #7
              Originally posted by Banyanresort View Post
              Seriously i believe in voodoo. A master once told me before that such places, as well as gigolo clubs, they will practice voodoo so as to capture their customers.
              All of a sudden conning people like that City Harvest Church pastor doesn't look that difficult anymore. Wake the f up, it's 2012.

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              • #8
                Originally posted by redkan28 View Post
                Agree that we have to choose the bf that you trust and trust the bf will respect you!

                I think ultimately 90% of the guys if given the money and chance, they will visit such places.
                If your statistics at 90% stands correct, that means only the remaining 10% of guys can be trusted and will be respectful? Taking into considerations that some of these men samples could be gay, not interested in women, wants to become monks, nerds who rather play computer games etc... they then potentially fall into the remaining 10% bracket here. Meaning...... there are essentially no straight men left who can be trusted ?


                Ultimately you can do everything to stop them, what you cannot stop is their desire!
                Or you can get back at them by visiting the popular Club Giorgio at Lavender street too ?!

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Banyanresort View Post
                  A master once told me before that such places, as well as gigolo clubs, they will practice voodoo so as to capture their customers.
                  If I was the "master", I would tell you that too ! If not, how else could I earn my keep and get my income from ?

                  If voodoo is really necessarily to capture customers, then there is no need to hire the sexy thai chick. Any retired uncles and aunties could have done the job since voodoo will sort out all the hooking up.

                  Definition of Voo-doo-spells:

                  1. a blatant excuse for those who are too weak to resist temptation of other more attractive human beings / things.

                  2. a condition known as being unfaithful to the original object of affection

                  e.g. I just ate 10 chocolate bars instead of eating my veggies and it's all because of the damn voodoo spell cast upon me when I was in the kitchen.

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                  • #10
                    Bf / Husband, Night Clubs, Thai Disco or Clubing..

                    If a man is unfaithful, anywhere in sg can make him stray.

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by Ang Mo Wolf View Post
                      those girls are there to hook up and make $$$ after all
                      My my what a sweeping statement. Contrary to what people believe, only a minority there are preying on the men and hoping to snag one for an eternity of monthly fuss-free income. For the rest, they are there definitely to make money, but not by hooking up. I do not understand why most of the blame is always being pushed to the girls, when in fact, it's the guys that lavish them with branded goods and openly declaring their love for them, disregarding their family if they do have one. These girls, many of whom have completed their university education, came to Singapore leaving their home and family behind to earn a living, are we to judge them just because of the way they dress, and how garlands are being flung repeatedly on them everyday ?

                      Imagine you are in a far off country dancing for a living, you already have a low self-esteem and wondering if this will really work out, when here comes a guy who treats you like a queen and promises to marry you. Guess what ? Ultimately the public will blame this poor girl just because of her job-scope and the fact that she is working in the night scene, and of course the standard stereotypes. Sadly no one bothers to find out more about them, guys try to get closer only for their selfish needs, setting off a chain reaction that leaves a wake of destruction behind.

                      By the way, similarly to casinos in Singapore, there is indeed "voodoo" in nightclubs and Thai discos, there are figurines and hidden fengshui architecture in them, but of course it boils down to whether you believe in it

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by Andre- View Post
                        I do not understand why most of the blame is always being pushed to the girls
                        And you also don't understand that I was not blaming either boys or girls.

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by Andre- View Post
                          For the rest, they are there definitely to make money, but not by hooking up. I do not understand why most of the blame is always being pushed to the girls, when in fact, it's the guys that lavish them with branded goods and openly declaring their love for them, disregarding their family if they do have one.
                          I can see where you are coming from. In fact, there is a Chinese descriptive name for such women who are often blamed for "seducing" these men known as "hu li jing" (fox jinx) but there is literally no descriptive name for the man who goes around freely sowing his oats and buying expensive stuff and spending money on all his "special lady friends" !!

                          Anyway, when there is a demand, the supply naturally sets in. The only way such so-called sleazy clubs will only stop operating is when the men stop patronizing it but is this ever going to happen ? Obviously no. Prostitution is one of the longest surviving profession in history not for without reasons. Craving for company and sexual urges is a biological instinct of humankind since........... err.....ice age, dinosaur age? , so unless all the men in the world loose the urge to "procreate" so to speak and do not find the idea of such clubs appealing anymore, there will always be a supply of such clubs to cater to that most primal basic instinct whether we like it or not.

                          These girls, many of whom have completed their university education, came to Singapore leaving their home and family behind to earn a living, are we to judge them just because of the way they dress, and how garlands are being flung repeatedly on them everyday ?
                          But being judged by others and judging others is a way of life no matter how much we want to deny it. We all have varying degree of judgements about others and the difference is in whether to unleash them or to reserve them. To make a decision to go into a certain profession in life whether as a social escort or as a factory girl is also a parallel decision made to agree to withstand society's judgement.

                          What's most important is having the ability to deal with these judgements. Yes, nobody has the right to judge but nobody is obligated to be sympathetic either.

                          To be fair, I think a lot of the girls also get what they need in return. I think many of them are willing and have the ability to deal with society's judgement in exchange for what they need. Fair play right ? There was this notorious case in the UK known as Belle De Jour where this girl went into social escort services to put herself through her phD studies. She dishes out, gets what she needs to put herself through school and life goes on. When the news got out, she lost face and was badly embarrassed but life somewhat seems to go on, with a phD in hand and landed what seems like a great job as a forensic scientist now ! Apparently according to her story, it would not have been possible if she had not gone into social escorting.

                          I'm not trying to glamorize such occupations (Belle De Jour is obviously an exceptional case) but its all about choices and being mentality prepared to deal with the consequences that comes with it.
                          Last edited by Borgen-breeze; 20-07-2012, 10:22 AM.

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                          • #14
                            Ah, interesting ! The supply and demand kind of reminds me of the on-going fight between animal activists regarding shark's fin soup, and the very people who eat them. It is amazing how shark's fin has no taste whatsoever when eaten solely, as the flavour is brought out by the broth, but yet at every major celebration such as wedding banquets, thousands of dollars will definitely be splashed on these hugely unattractive triangular ingredients . It's like pouring maple syrup on a piece of paper and me chomping on it furiously and exclaiming " Oh my god this is delicious because it is sweet !! ". But yet sadly the demand is there, and thousands of sharks sink like torpedoes into the sea after their fins have been sliced off.

                            Pardon me if I'm wrong, but there seems to be an increase in the number of Singaporean men who are having girlfriends or wives from Thailand. How do they even communicate ? Being able to order green curry and phad thai, and saying mai krap or tee rak does not equate to being fluent in thai language and culture ! In my opinion, much of their actions are based on what they perceive as "happening" in our local night scene, and the influence of their peers. It's much like fashion statements but on a sub-standard scale. The demand is going to stay at least for now, and from a business point of view, no harm bringing in the supply while it is still fresh.

                            Back to my bowl of bird nest soup

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                            • #15
                              -double post, my god-

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