Most people prefer the forbidden fruit, wanting what everyone else has and fail to look at what is in front of them.

I hardly ever develop interest in unavailable guys. (ie, attached, married, emotionally unavailable etc.... ). The moment i find out they are unavailable, I'm not attracted...

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In this case, what would your constructive advice for Nick be in order for him/her to hook up with more friends? Nick didn't seems to work on you, so I'm curious to know as to what about the intention that wasn't clear and how he/she...

Yes - I do, in this forum, specifically under this topic.

I'm just trying to give the argument some tangible context. Karma is too intangible.

Karma is a bit like - "I'm not going to do it because something bad is going to happen to me if I do so. But if there's...

Ok, couldn't resist myself. Last post of the week.



In Wendi Deng's case, it actually means A LOT ! A change of lifestyle and circumstances 360 degree !! Heck, it's 720 degree if it even exist !

Anyway, staying on the topic of this thread on how to meet...

Morality and ethics wise, she's definitely way down the scales - I mean it's not newsflash that people jeopardize someone elses marriage or work on fake-marriages for the benefits of immigration purposes. There's plenty of such news all over the world.

But putting all that morality aside...

Also, the older one gets, the more selective one is of new friends and acquaintances ! Getting older also means we become busier with life, work and family and have even less time to develop genuine friendships.

But yeah - get rid of toxic friends who makes you feel bad about yourself....

That's very true which is why I'm deeply fascinated by Wendi Deng !...

Building on the above, any thoughts on Wendi Deng's marriage and divorce saga from her TV mongol husband / ex-husband ?

With an age gap of almost 40 years between them, it's easy to put it down to "gold-digging" or "fantasy come true" for someone who lived through...

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I assume your post is directed at me.

And so do I - to express myself in the very same forum.




I don't think I was being harsh, I was just stating some facts of life to Nick and perhaps my style is not everyone's cup of tea but I can't...

Okay. This sounds like a logical explanation and I concur. Thinking back on some of the girls whom I've mentioned who fantasize all day of marrying rich men, most of them do come from slightly dysfunctional family - mostly issues with the father, but all of them are well educated with diplomas and degree....

Good for you that you stand firm on not being treated without respect because trust me, there are still many 30 something out there without the hindsight. Just read the boards and you will come to realise it.

Perhaps I had a different upbringing when I was much younger myself. I was...

I can't believe no one could actually reply to this post.

1) There is no need to confess anything about any undying love for a girl whom you've not even asked out. You don't even know what she is like. This is not a korean love drama.

2) Friends and colleagues acquaintance...

Too vague of an answer !

Charming in what ways and hardworking in what ways ?...

Nothing personal against this particular post.

But if I could receive a dollar for everytime someone says "communication is important in a relationship", I would have become a trilionaire by now.

It's such a dull dull dull answer !

Can someone...

That should usually be the case, but unfortunately in Singapore (and perhaps in many other countries too), you get lots of people who judge each other based on their wealth and you also get plenty of those who measures their own value against their own wealth. As stated in your other post on the online...